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Old 11-28-2015, 11:49 AM
 
Location: West Hollywood
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No because you judge people to the extent that you think someone may be a serial killer in the making
I didn't judge anyone. I said the OP's problem is one shared by many a serial killer. Then I gave him a helpful tip.
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Old 11-28-2015, 11:52 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I didn't judge anyone. I said the OP's problem is one shared by many a serial killer. Then I gave him a helpful tip.
I'll keep watching the 10 o clock news then mate and see if he took it!
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Old 11-28-2015, 12:39 PM
 
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I'm thinking more mass shooter
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Old 11-28-2015, 01:08 PM
 
Location: Riverside Ca
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I'm 23 and I've been masturbating and watching tons of porn ever since my early teens. I went to an escort for the first time last year and couldn't manage to keep an erection long enough. I was surely stressed and nervous but I never had that sort of problem when on my own.

I went to another one this week and the same thing happened. She was nice and friendly and tried her best but it was still a major humiliation to me.

Is this usual? This has seriously worried me.

The problem is that you are also beating the bishop so much that your body is simply used to your manipulation. So any other stimulation other than your own is " strange". And your body is reacting to that strange sensation by the way you are. Stop watching porn for a while or abusing your palms. That's a major part of your issue.
You have what is called a porn addiction and your mind and body doesn't understand how to handle a real situation. Sometimes stress and other things can affect a mans sexual performance or even mindset.
Seriously man give porn and your member a rest. You need tobresensutize your parts to react to other stimulus. You'll eventually get used to a woman handling your meat hammer and play Porn star weekend with a woman
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Old 11-28-2015, 03:11 PM
 
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Wow, the suggestion that the OP is going to become a murderer is just distasteful and insulting.
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Old 11-28-2015, 03:58 PM
 
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I watch it a on regular basis, yes. But I don't think you can consider it an addiction. I lead a fairly normal life and porn doesn't prevent me from doing anything that I want on my day-to-day life.
Except you can have an orgasm with a real human. Sounds like a problem.
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Old 11-28-2015, 04:44 PM
 
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I'm 23 and I've been masturbating and watching tons of porn ever since my early teens. I went to an escort for the first time last year and couldn't manage to keep an erection long enough. I was surely stressed and nervous but I never had that sort of problem when on my own.

I went to another one this week and the same thing happened. She was nice and friendly and tried her best but it was still a major humiliation to me.

Is this usual? This has seriously worried me.
Masturbating and watching porn for sex is the equivalent of playing war video games and thinking you can go take IS down. Turn off the porn and let the fairer sex handle your dick.
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Old 11-28-2015, 05:09 PM
 
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Is this thread for real????

This problem does not need therapy.
You are not a serial killer.
You aren't playing with yourself too much or watching too many porn movies.

The issue is you tried to get pleasure from an escort.
Try it with a girl you love, or at least kind of know, and the outcome will be different.
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Old 11-28-2015, 05:20 PM
 
Location: West Hollywood
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Is this thread for real????

This problem does not need therapy.
You are not a serial killer.
You aren't playing with yourself too much or watching too many porn movies.

The issue is you tried to get pleasure from an escort.
Try it with a girl you love, or at least kind of know, and the outcome will be different.
You realize that escorts aren't just betting boned by men who love them, right?
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Old 11-28-2015, 08:04 PM
 
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I'm 23 and I've been masturbating and watching tons of porn ever since my early teens. I went to an escort for the first time last year and couldn't manage to keep an erection long enough. I was surely stressed and nervous but I never had that sort of problem when on my own.

I went to another one this week and the same thing happened. She was nice and friendly and tried her best but it was still a major humiliation to me.

Is this usual? This has seriously worried me.
OP, this may or may not apply to your situation, but maybe lay off the escorts, get a real girlfriend, and focus on developing an EMOTIONAL connection with the person first. Then, maybe the physical stuff with take place later. I don't know about you, but if I were in that kind of situation, with a prostitute, I would probably not be able to do anything, either. They have intercourse with multiple clients; I would be too concerned for my health and safety.
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