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Originally Posted by DefiantNJ
Actually, it is probably a very good idea to try with an escort in this situation. An escort is not going to judge him and probably would not be shocked as a girlfriend would. She has seen it all. Nor is she likely to tell anything to her friends as a girlfriend probably would. And of course a girlfriend of OP's age will probably just break up with him if he is not able to perform. Young women are not know for patience in this area.
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Read the OP. He started this thread after he went to escorts on 2 separate occasions and could not get an erection. OP has never been able to have an erection with a real woman, only with porn. I still believe the porn is an issue. It's certainly not an issue for all men, and I like it too in fact, (the right kind, not too raunchy, don't need to see anything squirting into her eyes
) but this young man sounds to me like he has trained his body to get erections only in response to certain images. I would guess that he has also had to seek 'harder' images as time has gone on, and it may also be the case when he does get erect, he won't be able to orgasm anyway because he is so used to his hand and a computer screen.
I also suggest therapy as well as a strategy to quit porn and start to re-train your body to be able to get erect without needing that degree of visual stimulation.