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You're nervous. It happens; you're not alone. Have a couple drinks to calm the nerves. I was nervous the first few times, because in a guy's mind, they are trying to live up to some fantasy standard they've established in their own minds. It took me a few tries to stop worrying so much. Sex should be an enjoyable activity where you let your primitive instincts take over and you're not really thinking about anything other than pleasuring one another.
Definitely stop watching porn for a month...maybe even stop jac***g off for a month, THEN see what happens with a woman. That would be cheaper than a therapist right off the bat.
This is your willie on a porn addiction. Yep, counseling, as the others have said.
I ran into someone like that when I was 27. He was 30 and he couldn't get or keep it up without porn, only back then it wasn't streamed so he had a stack of skin mags and a bunch of images and wav files saved on 3.5" floppies. <-----And I'll let someone else run with that.
Needless to say, I dumped him, so my advice to you is to get this resolved before you get involved with a woman.
Definitely stop watching porn for a month...maybe even stop jac***g off for a month, THEN see what happens with a woman. That would be cheaper than a therapist right off the bat.
Indeed. I mean... the therapist probably costs more than the escort. Well maybe not, but to have to budget for both?! An absolute no fap month, and retry the escort thing. Escort... my how times have changed. Back in the day we called them 'round the way girls', and some of them were seriously scary, like keep one hand on your knife the whole time. Definitely a few no shows under that kind of pressure. Kids today have it so easy.
Men need an emotional connection to who they are sleeping with, even when it's just themselves. There's a reason viagra is used by perfectly viable Johns when it comes to "working girls". Listen, find a girl you want to take based on who she is, and you'll take her for all she's worth hahaha
No need to see a therapist, just stop jacking off and find the right girl.
I'm 23 and I've been masturbating and watching tons of porn ever since my early teens. I went to an escort for the first time last year and couldn't manage to keep an erection long enough. I was surely stressed and nervous but I never had that sort of problem when on my own.
I went to another one this week and the same thing happened. She was nice and friendly and tried her best but it was still a major humiliation to me.
Is this usual? This has seriously worried me.
If you have gotten acclimated to a really tight grip, you'll have to back off and let yourself readjust.
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