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Old 09-08-2018, 02:09 PM
 
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Nobody really cares who you are attracted to. But dont get married, if you truly are attracted to both sexes. Not fair to your spouse. And be upfront about it before sleeping with someone. Not fair to start a seeious relationship without telling them.
By this logic, no one should get married. I've never met a person who was hard-wired to be attracted to only one person their entire life. Ridiculous advice. Btw: I am a pansexual woman who has been in a monogamous relationship for five years and have no plans to change that.

 
Old 09-08-2018, 02:09 PM
 
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Uh, what?
I'm 25.
 
Old 09-08-2018, 02:10 PM
 
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Yes, you need to pick one or the other.
 
Old 09-08-2018, 02:10 PM
 
Location: Santa Monica
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I'm 25.
*shrug*

Ok.
 
Old 09-08-2018, 02:11 PM
 
Location: Columbia, SC
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By this logic, no one should get married. I've never met a person who was hard-wired to be attracted to only one person their entire life. Ridiculous advice. Btw: I am a pansexual woman who has been in a monogamous relationship for five years and have no plans to change that.
Congratulations! Many More in Good Health!
 
Old 09-08-2018, 02:11 PM
 
Location: London
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Yeah, sure, its just "creepy weirdos" that care about inter-population AIDS infection as a result of bisexual lifestyles.
That's not a result of "bisexual lifestyles". It's a result of *unsafe* lifestyles, which include a disturbing number of straight people, especially with Tinder hookup culture. It's gotten downright sleazy in the dating market out there...very glad I'm married.
 
Old 09-08-2018, 02:11 PM
 
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No OP, people only have power over your life and choices if you give them power. Don't give your power away. Hold your head high and walk in grace. Don't base your worth on the hypocritical opinion of others. People before and after you are made to feel ashamed because they are black, Hispanic or Asian descent, Muslim, Democrat, Republican, fat, skinny, too short or tall, female, low income, immigrant, gay, too old, too young etc. You get the point. Stand tall and strong in your spirit. I'm praying for you.
 
Old 09-08-2018, 02:15 PM
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Yes, you need to pick one or the other.
Some people can be equally attracted physically, emotionally, and intellectually to both men and women. Choosing to only follow through with only one sex doesn't change how that person is wired.
 
Old 09-08-2018, 02:15 PM
 
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*shrug*

Ok.
Lol, I know, I know but it's true. Out of ten of my friends, only two of us don't say we are bisexual. Now, they don't really practice the lifestyle but it is the thing to say now. Why limit your choices? That's what they'll say if you ask.
 
Old 09-08-2018, 02:16 PM
 
Location: Raleigh, NC
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Yes, you need to pick one or the other.
East, why does he need to pick one or the other?! What makes you the judge of this pray tell?
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