No faux pas there... the golf discussions on this forum seem to be few & far between and mostly centered around course preferences, access, location and fees. I was in an EWGA club in Florida and also really enjoyed meeting other female "executives". I recently moved from NC so can't join you in your endeavor.
You might try calling the courses and see if there is someone in charge of each of the lady's leagues, though they may be a little protective of their groups. Lochmere used to have a Ladies Golf Association - not sure if they still do.
You may also try the local "meetup" site as there could be something already listed or start your own non-official EWGA group.
Hit 'em long!
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