Hi! Just a few suggestions...you may have already checked these, but here goes: I was married in 2007 at the JC Raulston Arboretum in Raleigh (
JC Raulston Arboretum - Home Page). I know you can rent out a few locations in there if you have a larger party, but ours was a small "quickie" wedding, just the witnesses and minister, so we just scouted for nice photogenic spots beforehand, and then walked in and did it one day. We also checked ahead of time to make sure they were ok with it and they said as long as we didn't mind other people possibly being around they didn't mind. Another place we looked into was the Rose Garden (
Special Events in the Rose Garden | Raleigh Little Theatre). It was a bit costly for our needs though. But we have actually witnessed a few weddings there and it is beautiful. And last, I used to have lunch a lot at Lake Crabtree, and always thought it would be a great place for an outdoor natural wedding (
WakeGOV.com - Lake Crabtree Park). Which makes me wonder if other parks in the area might be worth considering...possibly there is one nearby to your reception location. Good luck and congratulations! Our wedding was everything we wished for and I hope yours is too