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Originally Posted by cr8086
I know some people who came back and hated it and others who went and love it. The people who have come back have told us that they don't like people from the north moving there.? If I can work year round there I would be greatful.
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I'm not a southerner, but I've lived all over the country (except the Northeast), and North Carolina is not any different than any other state in the country when it comes to new residents. What locals hate is people moving here and denigrating their new locale for what it doesn't have, and constant chatter about "up in NY we had this, we had that, we did it this way, your way is stupid." Just like if somone from NC moved to NY and complained about the traffic and attitudes of NY. Someone from NY would say "then move the hell back to NC then!" People here are more polite than that - though I'm sure they're thinking along the same lines.
The key to moving to a new area,
any new area, is to embrace it. Take in what it has; don't whine about what it doesn't. People that can't or won't do that won't fit in no matter where they moved to, be it NC, CO, ID, or MI. So it's not like people here don't like people from the north, just those specific people you mentioned.
So, move here and embrace the area, be friendly and courteous, and be a good citizen - people will accept you and want you around. You'll love it here.