If someone feels the way the OP does and they do not feel they should or could ask for a 3% price reduction (or whatever the % being offered to the Buyers Agent is) I usually suggest they check and see if Rebates are legal in their State
(They are legal in 40 States). If so then find an Agency/Broker that offers Rebates and at least get something back...
It's an option...in 40 States
Dept. of Justice Anti-Trust web Site
"Ten states forbid buyers’ brokers from rebating a portion of the sales commission to the consumer. Eight states require consumers to buy more services from sellers’ brokers than they may want, with no option to waive the extra items. HUD recently clarified its rule that rebates are permissible under RESPA as long as they are reported on the HUD-1 form."
What are the Laws in your State?
Competing models of real estate brokerage (Info from the DOJ)