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As far as "OMG I would never be serious with her because she has a documented past of sex on media", who cares? If she is commited to you now, you are the only one with her. You are her special other, you are the one getting "it" from her now. She can be a perfect wife outside the bedroom, just like any other woman.
Guys always want a sex diva for themselves, but I guess some guys expect her to be a pristine virgin until they get her? So I guess the chick you **** off to with your dirtiest fantasies is only good for that, a fantasy? It is much better to do it for real.
No, I don't want a woman who is dirty and has had sex with a multitude of men outside of being in love. That is not to say I care how they ruin their lives in whichever way they choose; live your life how you choose.
Conversely, To say that someone is "sad" because they would never give a filmed prostitute (what a porn star is, someone who's had unprotected sex with a large amount of men for nothing but money and attention) a chance at a serious relationship is ridiculous and way beyond normal thinking. That is what I just read, correct me if I'm wrong...
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That's the sad truth of it all right there. No matter what a woman's reason for doing pornography, for some it will never be justifiable and therefore never finding them worthy of being called Mrs.
Exactly. The only folks who can be judged are those who don't walk in lockstep with liberal views.
Oh please, don't turn this into some sorry political plight. I am against anyone judging anyone. Last I heard, no one in the "right wing" was GOD so unless you are without sin....shut the f*ck up, live and let live.
Awwww....you feeling like fighting with everyone today don't you? Well contrary to what you may think, you have not idea what my view is. However, let me give you a visual......I'm bending over with my a** in the air, hand smacking it while my lips are saying "kiss".
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Oh please, don't turn this into some sorry political plight. I am against anyone judging anyone. Last I heard, no one in the "right wing" was GOD so unless you are without sin....shut the f*ck up, live and let live.
Sorry but this is a public forum and I have a right to express my views as long as I stay within the TOS.
No, I don't want a woman who is dirty and has had sex with a multitude of men outside of being in love. That is not to say I care how they ruin their lives in whichever way they choose; live your life how you choose.
Conversely, To say that someone is "sad" because they would never give a filmed prostitute (what a porn star is, someone who's had unprotected sex with a large amount of men for nothing but money and attention) a chance at a serious relationship is ridiculous and way beyond normal thinking. That is what I just read, correct me if I'm wrong...
Hey man, to each their own. You decide what is good for you, others for themelves. I am just saying that a huge percentage of guys regardless of political leanings w*a*n*k off to porn fantasizing about what they see. While that can be fun, finding a girl that fullfills whatever sexual desire you have, conventional or otherwise is more fun. And her past doesn't reflect her future with you. If you care for her and she treats you well, then go with that.
The point is, don't call people insensitive when you don't even understand what we are discussing with that certain poster, because you obviously were lacking a reading comprehension within that conversation.
Speaking as a man, what I am saying is that men, and much of society in general, do not necessarily look at women who do porn as paragons of character.
Now, it may be that a woman who did porn only for, say, 2 or 3 productions, and is an otherwise upstanding citizen and person of exemplary character, is a much better individual, of greater decency that a woman who hasn't done porn, but who is conniving, devious, etc.
Nonetheless, people make judgments, and whether this is fair or not, judgmental or not, men don't want to go to bed knowing that their girlfriends/wives were/are in the virtual world and/or in print having sex with multiple men - for a living.
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That's the sad truth of it all right there. No matter what a woman's reason for doing pornography, for some it will never be justifiable and therefore never finding them worthy of being called Mrs.
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No, I don't want a woman who is dirty and has had sex with a multitude of men outside of being in love. That is not to say I care how they ruin their lives in whichever way they choose; live your life how you choose.
Conversely, To say that someone is "sad" because they would never give a filmed prostitute (what a porn star is, someone who's had unprotected sex with a large amount of men for nothing but money and attention) a chance at a serious relationship is ridiculous and way beyond normal thinking. That is what I just read, correct me if I'm wrong...
Your WRONG!! If you are going to quote me....get it right. I wasn't calling anyONE "sad" I said people being judgemental is sad.
You act like you've never done anything wrong or unpleasing in the eyes of another....well, I guess I can expect to see the video of you walking on water, healing the sick, etc. on YouTube then, huh? Who are you to judge someone's past?
Sorry but this is a public forum and I have a right to express my views as long as I stay within the TOS.
Well take it over to the political PUBLIC forum if you want to discuss liberal views, right winged views, etc. This is about relationships and as I recall this thread isn't about any particular politician doing porn. Move on.
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Your WRONG!! If you are going to quote me....get it right. I wasn't calling anyONE "sad" I said people being judgemental is sad.
You act like you've never done anything wrong or unpleasing in the eyes of another....well, I guess I can expect to see the video of you walking on water, healing the sick, etc. on YouTube then, huh? Who are you to judge someone's past?
There's a big difference between not judging someone's past and actually having a relationship with that person. People who have done pornography or prostitution can always change and get their lives back on track. I commend them for that and would never want to begrudge them a normal life with someone who is willing to have a relationship with them. I just cannot be that person who would be willing have the relationship with that person. Let's be honest here, there are very few men and women who are willing to have a serious relationship with someone who has had as many sexual partners as someone who has done pornography, especially when many folks view sex as something sacred. That is just the way it is.
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