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Originally Posted by CArizona
Do you have many "needy" friends? How would you define "being needy?" Before I got married I dated some men who seemed "needy." They were really nice people but they didn't seem to have much of a "life."...I sure have a lot of fears about appearing "needy." It's hard for me to ask for help...I don't want to be a burden on anyone ever...My husband won me over years ago because he showed me that he cared in so many ways yet he was self-sufficient too...I've had a few friends through the years who seemed to suck the life out of me because they dumped so much on my lap and wanted to be "rescued" all the time. It got old after awhile...My Aunt ended up marrying a "needy" man who just camped out at her house everyday. She said that she might as well take him in and marry him because he refused to go away....
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I need friends who will only contact me once every 2 months or less. The needy ones go straight to the curb to which I have kicked them. They are always pissed off about something imaginary that I did to them... often the lack of my attention. The term coined for such subhumans is "psychic vampires".
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