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Old 09-29-2010, 08:18 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I've never had a woman ask if it "was good for me." Because they don't care.
Not exactly. I can think of 2 reasons for it; there may be more.

- We know for men any sex is good sex.
- Our sense of self worth is not tied up to our genitals.

OK, or maybe we know we're THAT good!
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Old 09-30-2010, 04:19 AM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Not exactly. I can think of 2 reasons for it; there may be more.

- We know for men any sex is good sex.
- Our sense of self worth is not tied up to our genitals.

OK, or maybe we know we're THAT good!
I find that when it comes to sex, if I want it done right, I usually have to do it myself. Orgasm doesn't always happen when I'm with someone else, but it always does when I'm alone. So...what's better?
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Old 09-30-2010, 08:08 AM
 
Location: Puget Sound
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Not exactly. I can think of 2 reasons for it; there may be more.

- We know for men any sex is good sex.
Unless he doesn't orgasm. As they say; it takes two.

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- Our sense of self worth is not tied up to our genitals.
No, just your ass, thighs, stomach, hips, t*ts.

Generalizations ftw.

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OK, or maybe we know we're THAT good!
Sure. We'll, tickle your ego if you tickle ours.
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Old 09-30-2010, 01:19 PM
 
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Why fake when you can blame it on her

I'm a bad person
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Old 09-30-2010, 05:03 PM
 
Location: South FL
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I'm guessing there are few reasons for a man to fake:

Either she really sucks in bed and not in a good way,
He is not into her or not turned on enough
He is not in the best physical health and/or too tired to get to the finishing line.

As we know, orgasm recipe is CIRCULATION, RELAXATION, LUBRICATION AND STIMULATION. If one of those things is missing, a man may not reach the peak, so ladies, it's not just men who have to work at it, believe it or not, women have to put out some work too.
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Old 09-30-2010, 09:25 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I find that when it comes to sex, if I want it done right, I usually have to do it myself. Orgasm doesn't always happen when I'm with someone else, but it always does when I'm alone. So...what's better?
As we've already established long ago, you hardly represent the majority of people, Kramar.

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Unless he doesn't orgasm. As they say; it takes two.
Not really. Orgasms are pretty simple and they take one.

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No, just your ass, thighs, stomach, hips, t*ts.

Generalizations ftw.
Generalizations they are.

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Sure. We'll, tickle your ego if you tickle ours.
No argument about that!
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Old 09-30-2010, 09:25 PM
 
Location: Somewhere out there...
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I know women are really good at it but has anyone (male) ever faked it and gotten away with it?
I had my husband fake it, but I could tell. He said he was stressed and tired and once you lose the feeling you sometimes can't get it back. Advice for men, we can tell. Besides, there is nothing worse than beating a dead horse and I value walking the next day.
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Old 10-01-2010, 01:56 AM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Well, they say if you want something done right, you have to do it yourself.
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Old 10-01-2010, 02:41 AM
 
Location: In my view finder.....
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I know women are really good at it but has anyone (male) ever faked it and gotten away with it?
It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to "fake it".
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Old 10-01-2010, 10:03 AM
 
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I've faked it a few times.
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