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Old 10-09-2010, 09:10 PM
 
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Right now I am currently in a phase where I am happy to be single. But over the summer, and even in the Spring, I wanted a girlfriend so badly. Last year around this time, I wanted a girlfriend. But then last winter, I was happy to be single. As you can see, I go through phases. There have been phases where I wanted a girlfriend more than anything, but there are also phases where a girlfriend is the last thing I want. Is this normal? Does this happen to anyone else?
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Old 10-09-2010, 09:15 PM
 
Location: Southeast Arizona
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Right now I am currently in a phase where I am happy to be single. But over the summer, and even in the Spring, I wanted a girlfriend so badly. Last year around this time, I wanted a girlfriend. But then last winter, I was happy to be single. As you can see, I go through phases. There have been phases where I wanted a girlfriend more than anything, but there are also phases where a girlfriend is the last thing I want. Is this normal? Does this happen to anyone else?
I agree.

I'm a little different though, during late spring, summer and fall I'm happy to be single, then from around Thanksgiving to Valentine's Day I want a girlfriend badly, but I don't have one, and it frustrates me to no end during those months.
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Old 10-09-2010, 09:24 PM
 
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I don't follow a set pattern from year to year. I was just explaining what the pattern has been for the past year. It's not the same every year for me. Last year at this time, I wanted a girlfriend, but now I'm happy to be single.
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Old 10-10-2010, 12:48 AM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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I occasionally go through such phases, but when I find myself wishing for companionship I simply smash my head against a concrete wall until the urge passes. I find it's much easier, and cheaper, in the end...
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Old 10-10-2010, 05:00 AM
 
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I occasionally go through such phases, but when I find myself wishing for companionship I simply smash my head against a concrete wall until the urge passes. I find it's much easier, and cheaper, in the end...

LMAO! Love it!
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Old 10-10-2010, 05:25 AM
 
Location: Raleigh NC
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...and just an FYI when you are married you will feel the exact same way...
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Old 10-10-2010, 05:39 AM
 
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Are you not paying attention...??????

If you have money, that is$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

you will have lots of romance.

Figure out how to get some money and stop whining about girlfriends.

Girls want a future, are you on planet earth or what...?

If you want a girlfriend , get with the program and stop being a CRY BABY

Ha Ha HA wake up

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Old 10-10-2010, 05:50 AM
 
Location: Sunny Florida
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Cngratulations you are perfectly normal. What you've described is part of the human condition. Try to find joy in each phase. Best wishes.
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Old 10-10-2010, 09:33 AM
 
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...and just an FYI when you are married you will feel the exact same way...
I'm never getting married.
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Old 10-10-2010, 09:35 AM
 
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Are you not paying attention...??????

If you have money, that is$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

you will have lots of romance.

Figure out how to get some money and stop whining about girlfriends.

Girls want a future, are you on planet earth or what...?

If you want a girlfriend , get with the program and stop being a CRY BABY

Ha Ha HA wake up
I don't know what the purpose of your post is.

I'm 19, I don't have much money. And if you paid attention to my original post, you would see that right now I don't want a girlfriend.
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