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Old 10-20-2010, 09:37 AM
 
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I don't think it matters whether he is hiding your relationship or not. If you feel left out and unhappy, you don't have to stay with him. I wouldn't like being in that kind of relationship either. Maybe he's just a very private person who dislikes intimacy. That's OK for him, but it doesn't mean you have to live with that.
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Old 10-20-2010, 09:45 AM
 
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This sounds like a red flag
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Old 10-20-2010, 09:50 AM
 
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This sounds like a red flag
I agree.

If they just started dating, yes he has a point. However they've been dating for 1 year. Something in my gut tells me somethings not right.
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Old 10-20-2010, 09:58 AM
 
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If they've been dating for a year, and he's reacting like that, then she should reevaluate the relationship
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Old 10-20-2010, 01:27 PM
 
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Red flag. Your gut instinct is your best friend.
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Old 10-20-2010, 04:22 PM
 
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At times it is smart to not broadcast one's life. I have read everything from The sun and moon set in your eyes on FB (God, I would not want an employer reading that) to the people who have the good sense to only used LinkedIn and for business.

I think there are enough red flags already and FB is the least of them.
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Old 10-20-2010, 05:04 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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My boyfriend and I have been together for more than 1 year now. He tells me he loves me and is very serious with me, but never wants to talk about marriage. Today he posted some pictures online, and I simply made some comments such as "I like your hair", "nice picture honey". He took them off and asked me never to do it again because they were "intimate languages" that nobody else should see. He never posts any pictures of us together. If he does, it's only private between me and him.

Is he hiding about our relationship or am I over-reacting? I kinda feel he doesn't want anyone to know about my existence.
It sounds like he doesn`t want his FB friends knowing that you are in a relationship.
Well...thats when I would put pic ups up all over the place!!!
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Old 10-20-2010, 05:22 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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At times it is smart to not broadcast one's life.
Sure. Only in that case you've no business on FB at all! Once you make the choice of whether to be an exhibitionist or not, you have to present your life as it is!
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Old 10-20-2010, 08:37 PM
 
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hah,maybe it is a Secret for him..
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Old 10-21-2010, 11:36 AM
 
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My boyfriend and I have been together for more than 1 year now. He tells me he loves me and is very serious with me, but never wants to talk about marriage. Today he posted some pictures online, and I simply made some comments such as "I like your hair", "nice picture honey". He took them off and asked me never to do it again because they were "intimate languages" that nobody else should see. He never posts any pictures of us together. If he does, it's only private between me and him.

Is he hiding about our relationship or am I over-reacting? I kinda feel he doesn't want anyone to know about my existence.
He has someone else I would imagine.

If he doesn't want comments than he should disable comments. If only YOU can't comment you are being hidden and most likely lied to and cheated on.

One should have the right to post sweet nothings on their S/Os photos.

Investigate shug. And have a heart to heart with mister picture poster.
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