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Old 11-21-2010, 05:33 AM
 
Location: Vegas, baby, Vegas!
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I enjoyed the other thread so much, I thought it should have a 'mate'

Sexy:
kindness
caring
nurturing
openness to the world around her

Undesirable:
'selective' memory
self absorption
cattiness
Blanche DuBois - Attitude

Jonathan
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Old 11-21-2010, 05:50 AM
 
Location: The Island of Misfit Toys
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Originally Posted by macgeek View Post
I enjoyed the other thread so much, I thought it should have a 'mate'

Sexy:
kindness
caring
nurturing
openness to the world around her

Undesirable:
'selective' memory
self absorption
cattiness
Blanche DuBois - Attitude

Jonathan
Sexy:
Humility
Intelligence
Soft Spoken
Communicative
Sensitivity
Humanistic
Kindness
Wisdom



Undesirable:
Shallowness
Materialistic
Drama instead of intelligent communication and problem solving
Competitive (more broadly a social darwinist, I hate them, they are evil)
Is a thrill seeker instead of a seeker of knowledge and wisdom
Would rather be entertained than informed and learn about others
Avoids communication
Insensitive to others (especially those who are suffering)
Blind Conformist
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Old 11-21-2010, 07:30 AM
 
Location: Northside Of Jacksonville
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Sexy:
Humility
Intelligence
Soft Spoken
Communicative
Sensitivity
Humanistic
Kindness
Wisdom


Undesirable:
Drama instead of intelligent communication and problem solving-I can't stand women that think "fighting" is healthy in a relationship
Profanity-a woman who cusses IS NOT a lady, period.
Negative disposition
No moral character
Lack Of Ambition
Cold-hearted snake-were you hurt that bad to where your heart has turned cold towards the suffering of your fellow man? SMDH.
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Old 11-21-2010, 07:37 AM
 
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Sexy? Confidence, kindness, and a sense of humor.

Not Sexy? Self-absorption, lack of confidence, and an ungenerous spirit.
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Old 11-21-2010, 07:44 AM
 
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This is in exception of physical preferences, of course.

Sexy: consideration, sensuality, wit, and inquisitiveness.

Undesirable: obnoxiousness, captiousness, insecurity, and envy.
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Old 11-21-2010, 07:54 AM
 
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Sexy:
Brilliance
Big heart
Big smile
Healthy weight and lifestyle.

Undesirable:
Unable to apologize
Stupidity
Unhealthy lifestyle
Immaturity
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Old 11-21-2010, 08:32 AM
 
Location: Durham, NC
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Sexy:
Maturity
Kindness
Intelligence
Independent
Open minded
Thinks for herself
Has her own interests
How she relates to others, especially family
Walks, talks, acts and dresses like a lady
Has a natural beauty inside and out

Undesireable:
Pettiness
Jealousy
Closed minded
Trashy in appearance and manner
Clingy
"Fakeness", i.e. fake nails, fake boobs, fake hair, etc.
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Old 11-21-2010, 08:36 AM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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Your lists are lame, fellas. You need that babe generator machine they show in the Aerosmith video, "there's a hole in my soul"

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Old 11-21-2010, 08:57 AM
 
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Your lists are lame, fellas. You need that babe generator machine they show in the Aerosmith video, "there's a hole in my soul"

So... where is yours? A list of models and actresses? Perhaps just measurements. Since most of your posts are lame sexual innuendo and boasting of your prowess, I would venture to say that your list would be quite juvenile. But hey, some chicks dig that kind of stuff. *shrugs*
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Old 11-21-2010, 09:16 AM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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The things that make a woman sexy and desirable are often in the way she does something and not so much what she does. Two identicle women can say or do the same thing, but how they do it can be the difference in whether it's sexy or undesirable.

Some examples:

A man says he likes a woman who stands her ground. Well she can either come off as a shrill b*tch or a poised woman of dignity depending on her actions and delivery.

A man says he likes a woman who is independent. She'll either be seen as a selfish over-compensating and emasculating feminist, or she can be viewed as someone who isn't afraid to get her hands dirty and doesn't cling to a man to take care of her every whim.

A man says that jealousy is undesirable and unattractive. Well, if she's confrontational and borderline psychotic yes. However, if her jealousy comes out in subtle ways--a passive remark, a raised eyebrow, or handled with humor, it can be sexy and attractive.

All of the many adjectives used to describe whether a woman is sexy or undesirable can be swapped and inter-changed depending on how she expresses those things and the way in which she carries herself.
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