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Okay, so I didn't really like this guy. he was, or course, my friend, but that was all I ever thought about him. I mean, sure, I thought he was cute, but I never thought about dating him, until he said he liked me, but apparently I didn't know what that meant. A few days later he said he had a girlfriend. We text all the time, and I love talking to him, but I just want him to tell me why he likes me, or his girlfriend, or anyone else. According to my friend, he's a player, so he pretty much flirts with a lot of girls without meaning to. I really do want him to like me, though, but I don't want to hurt his girlfriend. But, is there a way I can get him to like me, and JUST me? Because he flirts with me all the time, even though he's dating another girl, and it sort of hurts. Is there a way to get him to focus all of his attention on me and me alone?
Okay, so I didn't really like this guy. he was, or course, my friend, but that was all I ever thought about him. I mean, sure, I thought he was cute, but I never thought about dating him, until he said he liked me, but apparently I didn't know what that meant. A few days later he said he had a girlfriend. We text all the time, and I love talking to him, but I just want him to tell me why he likes me, or his girlfriend, or anyone else. According to my friend, he's a player, so he pretty much flirts with a lot of girls without meaning to. I really do want him to like me, though, but I don't want to hurt his girlfriend. But, is there a way I can get him to like me, and JUST me? Because he flirts with me all the time, even though he's dating another girl, and it sort of hurts. Is there a way to get him to focus all of his attention on me and me alone?
You could lure him into your home, get him into your bedroom.
Then proceed to handcuff him to the bed. No escape for him and he's sure to be all yours!
Okay, so I didn't really like this guy. he was, or course, my friend, but that was all I ever thought about him. I mean, sure, I thought he was cute, but I never thought about dating him, until he said he liked me, but apparently I didn't know what that meant. A few days later he said he had a girlfriend. We text all the time, and I love talking to him, but I just want him to tell me why he likes me, or his girlfriend, or anyone else. According to my friend, he's a player, so he pretty much flirts with a lot of girls without meaning to. I really do want him to like me, though, but I don't want to hurt his girlfriend. But, is there a way I can get him to like me, and JUST me? Because he flirts with me all the time, even though he's dating another girl, and it sort of hurts. Is there a way to get him to focus all of his attention on me and me alone?
Sorry terrible decision. If you date him your a home wrecker and no better then those idiots on jerry springer. No sympathy for you. Just know that ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER. Hes already a cheater for hitting on you when he has a girlfriend
Have some freaking self respect. Do you think you deserve trash like that? If your thinking about it maybe you are trash too..
EDIT: You know what... Go ahead, I dare you. Just make sure you come back in a few weeks crying your eyes out so we can laugh.
Okay, so I didn't really like this guy. he was, or course, my friend, but that was all I ever thought about him. I mean, sure, I thought he was cute, but I never thought about dating him, until he said he liked me, but apparently I didn't know what that meant. A few days later he said he had a girlfriend. We text all the time, and I love talking to him, but I just want him to tell me why he likes me, or his girlfriend, or anyone else. According to my friend, he's a player, so he pretty much flirts with a lot of girls without meaning to. I really do want him to like me, though, but I don't want to hurt his girlfriend. But, is there a way I can get him to like me, and JUST me? Because he flirts with me all the time, even though he's dating another girl, and it sort of hurts. Is there a way to get him to focus all of his attention on me and me alone?
First of all, why would you have any interest in a guy if he's willing to dump his girlfriend to be with you? If he's willing to do that to her, then he'll probably do the same thing to you. Second, I think this guy is a player. Again, why would you have any interest in this guy? Seriously, just move on.
Okay, so I didn't really like this guy. he was, or course, my friend, but that was all I ever thought about him. I mean, sure, I thought he was cute, but I never thought about dating him, until he said he liked me, but apparently I didn't know what that meant. A few days later he said he had a girlfriend. We text all the time, and I love talking to him, but I just want him to tell me why he likes me, or his girlfriend, or anyone else. According to my friend, he's a player, so he pretty much flirts with a lot of girls without meaning to. I really do want him to like me, though, but I don't want to hurt his girlfriend. But, is there a way I can get him to like me, and JUST me? Because he flirts with me all the time, even though he's dating another girl, and it sort of hurts. Is there a way to get him to focus all of his attention on me and me alone?
Why do you want a guy who is obviously playing the field? Do you want to be another one of his conquests? You can do better. He has a g/f, period and telling you he likes you. He's out for quantity, not quality.
Okay, you're all saying how he's a player and if he dumps his girlfriend for me, then he'll end up dumping me for another girl. I think I worded that wrong. He is a complete idiot, but he won't dump his girlfriend for another girl. That's one thing he would never do. And I would never ask him to do that, actually if he dumped his girlfriend for me I would probably force him to get back with her. And I've liked him since before he started going out with his girlfriend, I didn't used to like him, but now I do. What I'm asking is, is there any middle ground? Yeah, this may just be a stupid teenage crush, and if it is, is there any way to get over it? I'm sick of feeling like this, and you all saying to just forget about him or saying that I'm trash because I'll make a guy dump his girlfriend for me, YOU ARE NOT HELPING!!!! I'm sorry, but you're not. If you think this thread is dumb or stupid, then don't comment. It's as simple as that. If you think that I'm just a stupid little kid who is just being dumb, then why bother? Why make me feel worse about my problems? Those of you who say that are just as stupid as you think I am. I can tell you right now that I'm not a normal girl. I won't swear, be rude to someone for no reason, have sex with anyone, or anything like that, but I have enough guts to defend myself. I already feel terrible, so does it make you feel better to make me feel even worse?
There are lots of people who have a flirty nature. It doesn't make them a 'player'....they just enjoy the fun of those types of friendships.
The only way you are going to know if this guy feels more for you than a flirty friendship is for you to ask him. This is always a risk, because if he doesn't feel the same way you do....then the easy going dynamics of the friendship might change. Only you can decide if the risk is worth it. MOST of the time....it isn't.
I think if he currently has someone he calls his girlfriend, then it is safe to assume if he didn't want that particular relationship, he would break up with her. You can remain his flirty friend to see if he gets out of his current friendship later or you can take the risk mentioned in the above paragraph.
Good luck to you either way. I hope you find real love either with this guy or with someone else who is right for you.
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