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Old 12-06-2010, 10:44 PM
 
Location: United States of Embarrassment
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The first man or woman you lost your virginity to. Do you ever forget about them? I am told, it is a hard thing to do and the memories and regrets of not making it work come back to them time and time again. Is this true?
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Old 12-06-2010, 10:56 PM
 
Location: ATL with a side of Chicago
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The first man or woman you lost your virginity to. Do you ever forget about them? I am told, it is a hard thing to do and the memories and regrets of not making it work come back to them time and time again. Is this true?
I dated him for two years, and we were married for 14 years, and had a son. Kind of hard to forget about him, since I still have to see him. But I don't have any sentimental association with losing my virginity to him any more, sadly, because of how things ended. He was my first love.

The first time I had sex with the second man I ever loved is the one I still think about. It was amazing. Yeah, I still think about him, and have regrets that we couldn't make it work.
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Old 12-06-2010, 10:57 PM
 
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well my I lost my virginity, generally speaking, not that long ago, almost 5 years ago to my first love. It ended almost 2 years ago so although I have no regrets of it not working out, I haven't completely forgotten him yet. I have since had sex with two other men and dated a little bit, but no serious relationship has happened since.

Basically, I don't think anyone really ever forgets their first so although I think of him from time to time, I don't have any desire to hear from him or see him again, as it ended horribly bad and I don't think very highly of him at all anymore. I actually feel bad for his new gf :-/ but at the same time, I hope he's learned now too.
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Old 12-06-2010, 11:25 PM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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I did until just now. Thanks.
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Old 12-07-2010, 12:18 AM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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I will never forget the woman that made me a man. It was just a one night fling but I'll never forget her. From time to time I wonder where she is and what she's doing. She gave me the one good life story I have.
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Old 12-07-2010, 12:26 AM
 
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Yes, it is true, never forget..
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Old 12-07-2010, 12:52 AM
 
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No you don't forget. But it really is up to the person whether they are hung up about it forever. Take it as a beginning, not as some sort of climatic part of your life (no pun intended).
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Old 12-07-2010, 12:52 AM
 
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In a word yeah... is u want to
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Old 12-07-2010, 06:44 AM
 
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The first man or woman you lost your virginity to. Do you ever forget about them? I am told, it is a hard thing to do and the memories and regrets of not making it work come back to them time and time again. Is this true?
"first"?? You can only lose your virginity once.
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Old 12-07-2010, 07:05 AM
 
Location: Arizona
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My first guy, I still think about, but because he was a dick who cheated on me. If anything, I regret wasting my time with an a-hole.
And I think about other guys that I wasted my time with etc.
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