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right now you are a kid and probably a shy one at that. when you get older you'll learn to tell people how you feel. you really are coming off as a stalker at this pont though.
I never learned how to ask someone out. And I'm afraid to try it out for the first time. Quite the predicament. Don't know how to ask someone out because I never have. And I've never asked someone out because I don't know how.
Just because I'm into someone and don't tell them, that doesn't make me a stalker.
Maybe she did, maybe she didn't. But you've already mentioned that you now realize she's not perfect for you so....
So here's the thing...
You and I are very different. We are at very different points in our lives and so our outlook on a lot of things is going to be different.
I'm not picking on you, CD. I'm just giving my opinion and it just so happens to be different than yours. I can assure you, I'm not combing the threads looking for your name just so I can disagree with you.
Ok, you're right. A 19 year old and a 33 year old have different outlooks. Just like a 5 year old and a 19 year old have different outlooks.
Yes, I realize she's not perfect for me now. But that's because she changed. And yes, she really did. There was something she did at the end of our freshman year that proves she's not the same person I met at the beginning.
But you never became anything more than friends. I hate when I meet someone that's perfect for me but they don't realize it and stuff just doesn't go the way I planned.
No. I've never met anyone perfect for me. Even my husband whom I love to pieces is not perfect for me and quite honestly, I think there is no such thing.
I never learned how to ask someone out. And I'm afraid to try it out for the first time. Quite the predicament. Don't know how to ask someone out because I never have. And I've never asked someone out because I don't know how.
Just because I'm into someone and don't tell them, that doesn't make me a stalker.
i said you were "coming off" as a stalker.
try this, just say... "hey wanna go out sometime"? what's the worst that can happen? don't try to be cool or cute, just come out and ask, you may be surprised at the answer. i had lunch with my wife at work for 2 or 3 months before i asked her out and it was like magic when i asked. she shrugged and said "sure why not" and the rest is history.
Can I ask one tiny question, do you actually have day to day contact with this girl?
I don't know about day to day. But I see her on a regular basis. In fact, I spent 2 and a half hours with her on Wednesday (it wasn't just me and her).
But you never became anything more than friends. I hate when I meet someone that's perfect for me but they don't realize it and stuff just doesn't go the way I planned.
They're not perfect for you if they don't feel the same way about you. So it's kind of a messed up question.
I don't know about day to day. But I see her on a regular basis. In fact, I spent 2 and a half hours with her on Wednesday (it wasn't just me and her).
What were you doing on Wed? Did you talk with her alone? Was it a class?
This is an odd question. You cannot dub thee perfect for someone else. They have to reach that conclusion themselves. Your continued insistance that you are perfect for her is why some are saying you're creepy.
Just float it out there next time you see her. Ask her to a movie or something. You don't have to go balls out or anything. Just plant the seeds and see if anything grows.
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