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Meeting you was such a powerful event that turned a good girl bad?! Way to go, CD!
I sure hope meeting me was not the reason she went bad. I prefer good girls over bad girls. That's one of the reasons I had a thing for her when she was a good girl.
If anything, I think I would prevent her from going bad. But obviously, something made her go bad.
So you know you're perfect for her because you know yourself very well. Is it possible that she knows herself very well and knows you aren't perfect for her?
Basically what I'm saying is that you have to know yourself AND the other person very very well in order to know if you're perfect for each other. And it's pretty impossible to know someone very very well and them not to know you very very well...
Why doesn't what she thinks matter in all this? Why do you think you know what she needs or is perfect for her more than she does?
I think your wants and needs are being put before hers in this scenario even though you think you're doing something for her (being her perfect match).
So you know you're perfect for her because you know yourself very well. Is it possible that she knows herself very well and knows you aren't perfect for her?
Basically what I'm saying is that you have to know yourself AND the other person very very well in order to know if you're perfect for each other. And it's pretty impossible to know someone very very well and them not to know you very very well...
Why doesn't what she thinks matter in all this? Why do you think you know what she needs or is perfect for her more than she does?
I think your wants and needs are being put before hers in this scenario even though you think you're doing something for her (being her perfect match).
Why is there so much assuming on this thread? Other people are assuming this girl doesn't think she's perfect for me. But she never said her opinion one way or the other. For all we know, she might think she's perfect for me.
But I no longer think she's perfect for me. In fact, I resent her.
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Originally Posted by thatsong64
You know I'm gonna say it:
not that much of an age difference!
I agree with you on that. A high school freshman and a college freshman is not much of an age difference. However, people mature a lot between 14 and 18.
And you're taking that quote out of context. The point I was trying to make is how a high school freshman boy might be infatuated with a girl just because she gives him attention. But a college freshman boy wouldn't.
I sure hope meeting me was not the reason she went bad. I prefer good girls over bad girls. That's one of the reasons I had a thing for her when she was a good girl.
If anything, I think I would prevent her from going bad. But obviously, something made her go bad.
Go bad in your eyes, doesn't mean she is a bad girl. She could be just a normal teen or young adult.
Go bad in your eyes, doesn't mean she is a bad girl. She could be just a normal teen or young adult.
What in your eyes made her go bad?
Shortly after I met her, she said she got drunk once in high school. But she said she never wants to drink again because she doesn't like being unaware of her surroundings.
But now, she's a heavy drinker.
I don't drink so I admired her when I first met her. But now I think less of her.
I also heard her talking about birth control. I overheard her so I don't know the context. Maybe (hopefully) she was talking about someone else. I was talking to another friend so I wasn't paying much attention to this girl's conversation. But when I heard her say birth control, that stood out.
She doesn't have a boyfriend as far as I know (but she doesn't list her relationship status on facebook so that was frustrating when I thought she was perfect for me). So if she had sex, I wonder who she had sex with.
And I don't care what you say. Premarital sex is not just being a normal young adult. It might be the norm these days, but that doesn't make it right. Underage drinking is not right either.
And to make it worse, she's one of those people that seems innocent so you don't expect this out of her.
I sure hope meeting me was not the reason she went bad. I prefer good girls over bad girls. That's one of the reasons I had a thing for her when she was a good girl.
If anything, I think I would prevent her from going bad. But obviously, something made her go bad.
Agreed with you 100% friend (bolded part above). I am truly sorry to hear about her "going bad", that really sux
In your and Knight's eyes, it is bad. But it still doesn't mean she's bad. You yourself said you don't know what she was talking about when she mentioned birth control. She could have been discussing girl things like having problems with her monthly and she needs to take birth control to control the bleeding. It could be that someone else is on birth control. It could be that the group she was in was discussing the pros and cons of birth control. Could be anything?
And with drinking, she tried drinking and didn't like it. And you say she's a heavy drinker, who says? Do you actually see her drunk alot or are you hearing someone says she drinks alot?
Both you and Knight are jumping to conclusions about people and assuming too much.
Try to have a more open mind and don't try to judge people.
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Way to go, CD!
