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I'm not saying people should be forced into abortions. I'm saying if you don't want a baby, you should get an abortion. You'd be doing yourself a favor . Why is this so hard for you to understand?
Why is it so hard for you to understand that abortion is simply not an option for many people?
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I guess I have a hard time understanding how someone could be pro-life but also not want a baby. One of the reasons I support abortion is because I hate babies. I believe if someone truly doesn't want a baby, they would be pro-choice.
I'm not pro-life. You hate babies? Nice. Yeah, seriously dude, keep it in your pants with *that* attitude.
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I heard child support is half your salary. Maybe that's not true. But that's not the point. The point is the man loses money to a woman he hates to pay for a baby he never wanted.
What you heard is not right. The point is that the woman suffers much more for this than the man does. And if he didn't want to paid child support, he shouldn't have had sex.
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If I was ever put in that scenario (which I won't since I don't have sex), I would most definitely walk out on her. Paying child support is better than actually having to deal with raising the baby (along with paying for the baby). Although I don't want to do either.
What?! You are saying you'd walk out on YOUR child? Unbelievable.
This is bonkers. How do you hope to have a relationship with a woman, even one without intercourse, if you think that she could be deceitful and trying to trap you? Your fear goes way, way beyond fear of pregnancy. Now you think women and doctors are liars?
No, that's not what I'm implying at all. And men can lie too.
I read a story about a girl that purposely stopped taking birth control without telling her boyfriend. Now that's just evil. That story got me wondering what other measures women will go to in order to get pregnant.
And I'm not even saying she would try to trap me into pregnancy. But trapping me into sex could lead to pregnancy.
This is exactly the point I've been trying to get across. I'm not willing to take responsibility for a surprise pregnancy. Therefore, I don't have sex. At least I know what I want (or in this case, what I don't want).
I think you are setting yourself up for regret, pain, loneliness and heartache with this attitude.
Seeing as I didn't know what a hysterectomy was until today, I can't name one person that ever happened to.
Here's a better analogy. Doctors can give a vasectomy and say it was successful, but the vasectomy can fail eventually.
A hysterectomy is a procedure where the woman's uterus is removed, and sometimes the ovaries. There is nowhere for the egg (if there is one) to be fertilized or implant. I have never heard of a woman becoming pregnant after a hysterectomy but that is why God made the internet. Or talk to a real doctor!
No, that's not what I'm implying at all. And men can lie too.
I read a story about a girl that purposely stopped taking birth control without telling her boyfriend. Now that's just evil. That story got me wondering what other measures women will go to in order to get pregnant.
And I'm not even saying she would try to trap me into pregnancy. But trapping me into sex could lead to pregnancy.
I have never heard of a woman bribing a doctor to lie about a hysterectomy to trap a guy into having sex with her. Women don’t need to trap a guy for sex. We just go have sex with someone else.
Why is it so hard for you to understand that abortion is simply not an option for many people?
I'm not pro-life. You hate babies? Nice. Yeah, seriously dude, keep it in your pants with *that* attitude.
What you heard is not right. The point is that the woman suffers much more for this than the man does. And if he didn't want to paid child support, he shouldn't have had sex.
What?! You are saying you'd walk out on YOUR child? Unbelievable.
Why is abortion not an option for many people? It's legal. I don't know how much it costs, but a lot of poor people get them.
If the woman doesn't want the baby and she doesn't get an abortion, there's always adoption. There's no reason for a woman to keep a baby she doesn't want.
Yes, I'd walk out. I never want a baby and I would resent the mother for keeping the baby.
I have never heard of a woman bribing a doctor to lie about a hysterectomy to trap a guy into having sex with her. Women don’t need to trap a guy for sex. We just go have sex with someone else.
Not to mention how much would a woman have to pay an OBGYN to stake his license and reputation on lying about a hysterectomy?
Here's to hoping that one day technology could fix that. That will be the next step in sexual liberation.
Oh Lord, you're going to scare the boy all over again.
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