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Old 01-11-2011, 05:00 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Old 01-11-2011, 05:11 AM
 
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Wh*ring Around

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Old 01-11-2011, 05:12 AM
 
Location: Melbourne, Victoria, Australia, The World!
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Generally speaking, women need time to emotionally experience and come to terms with the pain associated with a relationship ending. Alternatively, most men don't like to experience painful emotions, such as sadness or grief, to the point of actively avoiding these feelings.

These men can't see the point of wallowing in self-pity or repeatedly going over in their heads what happened. Alternatively, they may self-medicate in the form of a string of meaningless flings or try to quickly move on from the past by covering it up with a history of new sexual experiences.
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Old 01-11-2011, 06:22 AM
 
Location: Between Philadelphia and Allentown, PA
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Sowing his wild oats.
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Old 01-11-2011, 06:25 AM
 
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Situation, guy breaks up with his girlfriend, then goes on a screwing spree with as many women as he can before after a few weeks often more, finding someone else more long term.

Seems very common. One is "on the rebound", but what are other phrases that describe it?
Therapy
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Old 01-11-2011, 06:34 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Its called "I'll show that b*tch!"
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Old 01-11-2011, 06:47 AM
 
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Just seems strange, a common situation yet I can't think of another way of describing it other than on the rebound......
Why do you need a term to describe it? Are you writing a poem or something?
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Old 01-11-2011, 08:04 AM
 
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Why do you need a term to describe it? Are you writing a poem or something?
sure let's start a poem

there once was a man who sat broken-hearted
that decided on a quest he must get started...

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Old 01-11-2011, 11:14 AM
 
Location: Wyoming
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I've never experienced that from a "break up", but I did when my late wife died. I was running from the pain and desperately seeking something or someone to fill the emptiness I felt. Some partners were simply nooky and they knew it; all the others I truly hoped would be more. But I don't have a term for it.
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Old 01-11-2011, 11:20 AM
 
Location: Connecticut is my adopted home.
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The psychological term is "acting out" painful feelings but most people would pretty much recognize it as rebound sex.
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