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It's not the fact you like what you like. It's because you won't shut up about it. Do YOU want to hear how we love 6/12 packs on men while you look at your flabby belly? Oh and what about the guys who go for the fake porn look; fake boobs, lots of cosmetic surgery, fake hair, lips, to the point where you are attracted to female impersonators and can't tell the difference from a real woman. That is when it gets scary for me. A guy so into fantasy, he doesn't know or appreciate reality.
When men only care about the size of the boob, but disregard the contour, shape, firmness, or proportionality to the rest of the body (i.e. D cup breasts are really nothing to boast about on a 250 pound woman) it certainly makes an argument that they have poor aesthetic sense. I might argue with them for the sake of purely aesthetic principles, but I would not feel threatened by their lack of good taste. I have every right to question their taste if they are gonna bring it up in the first place.
In terms of plastic surgery, some are nicely done but others have poor placement, visible scarring, capsular contractures, and other uneven qualities that make them quite rough. Some men wouldn't mind this, but a plastic surgeon would disagree. Does this mean that the plastic surgeon is insecure?
Of course men and women can like whatever they like... just paste a pair of liver snappy FF boobies on a cow... it's none of my concern.
Nice boobies come in all sizes... it is their loss if they cannot appreciate a nice pair. More for me to look at.
I try to appreciate members of the Sisterhood of Woman, whenever I have the presence of mind to do so.
I think she is unique and very cute. So what if she does not have boobs or ass. She is gonna get a thousand times more attention than a blah girl who wears designer jeans and has the Jennifer Aniston haircut. She likes how she looks, much like how you like to represent yourself in a certain way when you leave the house each morning.
Unique? Google "cyber goth" and you'll get a bunch of girls that look just like her. She's following a trend that she likes. Just like the Jennifer Aniston hair cut designer jean girls... please explain to me what the difference is. Who cares about boobs and ass? Most guys (because boobs are uniquely feminine and because of male biology blah blah blah) that's why I found it surprising that men were attracted to her. Good for her for liking how she looks! BUT her style is NOT unique. I don't really think anyone's is. Myabe Bjork? I'm not trying to insult her, I just wonder what males find attactive about that look.
To the bolded part: Why?
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I know plenty of people who would think she is hot. She probably has that dressing up down to a science and she can pull it off in the same amt of time it takes for a "mundane" chick to wash, blow dry, curl hair, and put on cakes of more subtle makeup.
Why are people saying "There is a type of guy who finds that attractive"? I know, one of my best friends is one of them. That's what my post was about. I get that if you do that all the time it probably doesn't take that long, so I see what you mean there.
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When I go to clubs I get tons of attention everytime I dress like that. Every. Time. Guys, girls, modeling scouts, etc. I'm not a huge fan of it now because I look down on the music scene, I'd rather be left alone, and I have better stuff to do, but I totally get why this girl does this.
Congratulations for getting tons of attention? Are you just telling me that to drive home the point that there are guys/people who like that look? Once again, I already know that. I understand part of the reason she does it might be to get attention. My post wasn't really asking why she EVER does it, just why she does it when its got to be sooo uncomfortable in 90 degree weather. My question was mostly: what's attractive about it when you can't really see what she looks like and she doesn't have most of the attributes that most men find attractive?
And most of the responses I've gotten are: "Someone likes it." But that isn't answering "why?".
When men only care about the size of the boob, but disregard the contour, shape, firmness, or proportionality to the rest of the body (i.e. D cup breasts are really nothing to boast about on a 250 pound woman) it certainly makes an argument that they have poor aesthetic sense. I might argue with them for the sake of purely aesthetic principles, but I would not feel threatened by their lack of good taste. I have every right to question their taste if they are gonna bring it up in the first place.
In terms of plastic surgery, some are nicely done but others have poor placement, visible scarring, capsular contractures, and other uneven qualities that make them quite rough. Some men wouldn't mind this, but a plastic surgeon would disagree. Does this mean that the plastic surgeon is insecure?
Of course men and women can like whatever they like... just paste a pair of liver snappy FF boobies on a cow... it's none of my concern.
Nice boobies come in all sizes... it is their loss if they cannot appreciate a nice pair. More for me to look at.
aesthetic taste is relative. can this be objectively determined?
I think personally that women who get fake boobs are insecure. Self-confidence comes from self-acceptance, not thinking one is nothing for being physically undesirable.
Because it's tiring to hear women question why men like such and such, or how it's unfair that men like xyz trait in women. Such is life, nobody can dictate what others should or should not like or find desirable.
aesthetic taste is relative. can this be objectively determined?
I think personally that women who get fake boobs are insecure. Self-confidence comes from self-acceptance, not thinking one is nothing for being physically undesirable.
I could get into body painting. I don't mind if a chick tries to unleash my inner Pygmalion.
Because it's tiring to hear women question why men like such and such, or how it's unfair that men like xyz trait in women. Such is life, nobody can dictate what others should or should not like or find desirable.
I think we should convince chicks that it is rude to ask a nice guy for a relationship before they do him. And, that the ones who are doing him the most are going to be considered his girl friends.
When men only care about the size of the boob, but disregard the contour, shape, firmness, or proportionality to the rest of the body (i.e. D cup breasts are really nothing to boast about on a 250 pound woman) it certainly makes an argument that they have poor aesthetic sense. I might argue with them for the sake of purely aesthetic principles, but I would not feel threatened by their lack of good taste. I have every right to question their taste if they are gonna bring it up in the first place.
In terms of plastic surgery, some are nicely done but others have poor placement, visible scarring, capsular contractures, and other uneven qualities that make them quite rough. Some men wouldn't mind this, but a plastic surgeon would disagree. Does this mean that the plastic surgeon is insecure?
Of course men and women can like whatever they like... just paste a pair of liver snappy FF boobies on a cow... it's none of my concern.
Nice boobies come in all sizes... it is their loss if they cannot appreciate a nice pair. More for me to look at.
My ex fiance was a 36DD and weighed about 150 at 5'5; after she miscarried, they got bigger, and for about a year she was a 38E and weighed about 170. Those things were huge. I am a boob man, and they were definitely nice to look at and play with... but... she had dark-colored stretch marks down her chest and around her areolas because they weighed a lot and swelled after she started lactating. Couldn't walk ten feet without someone gawking and even when I was with her, the comments never stopped.
The dumbest comments were the, "wow, your boobs are big/you've got huge boobs!" that guys would exclaim... it's like, GEE, thanks! I bet she hadn't ever noticed she had two twenty-pound weights attached to her chest, and no one else has either! I feel for any busty girl in this regard...
But all this said, if most of these guys who stood slackjawed were to have seen her when she had disrobed and taken off the bra that kept them from sagging down to her belly button and saw two big, saggy, milky, stretch-marked things hanging there, most of them would have said "pass." They looked absolutely NOTHING like pornstar boobs of the same size. She had been really proud of her bust up until all that, and then she lamented how lucky smaller chested gals are.
I've dated a couple women with bigger chests than her, but the two girls I've been in relationships with who I had the most love for and the most sentimentality for were an A-cup and a B-cup. Both of them were absolutely stunning by my measure, and their personalities were definitely what did it for me, but before them? I pretty much only dated busty gals.
Going after someone simply because she has physical attributes you find enticing will most likely backfire unless you're just looking for sex. Trust me, everyone!
I think practicing not judging women by the clothes they don't wear, on the internet, helps.
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Do YOU want to hear how we love 6/12 packs on men while you look at your flabby belly? Oh and what about the guys who go for the fake porn look; fake boobs, lots of cosmetic surgery, fake hair, lips, to the point where you are attracted to female impersonators and can't tell the difference from a real woman. That is when it gets scary for me. A guy so into fantasy, he doesn't know or appreciate reality.
