Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
Location: Moose Jaw, in between the Moose's butt and nose.
5,152 posts, read 8,527,286 times
Reputation: 2038
Advertisements
and they don't say anything about not being friends or not hanging out at all...
should you take that as a sign to just take the bull by the horns, cut your losses and lose all communication (save for an occasional email) with that person?
Folks are telling me that once this person told me that she didn't want a boyfriend.....even though we went out on a few dates...
I should have just stopped contacting her, period.
Location: Moose Jaw, in between the Moose's butt and nose.
5,152 posts, read 8,527,286 times
Reputation: 2038
Not so much, that one would expect the other person to change his/her mind, but still try to be friends with them, when they say that's still ok.(or they don't say that it's not ok)....
again, expect the person to change their mind. One can always hope since they can't control feelings, but they can control what they do with them.
Well, not only torture yourself but you're going to **** her off that she said no and you won't take no for an answer. Does she want you as a friend only? Or did she say no relationship period and no friendship?
Not so much, that one would expect the other person to change his/her mind, but still try to be friends with them, when they say that's still ok.(or they don't say that it's not ok)....
again, expect the person to change their mind. One can always hope since they can't control feelings, but they can control what they do with them.
Well sure, there's nothing wrong with hoping that they might change their mind... but expecting? Mmm, not so much.
Only you can decide what you'd like to do but ask yourself: Do you want to continue pursuing a relationship with someone who isn't interested? Wouldn't you rather invest your time in finding and developing a relationship with someone who wanted the same thing as you (and with you)?
Location: Moose Jaw, in between the Moose's butt and nose.
5,152 posts, read 8,527,286 times
Reputation: 2038
Quote:
Originally Posted by donie1
Well, not only torture yourself but you're going to **** her off that she said no and you won't take no for an answer. Does she want you as a friend only? Or did she say no relationship period and no friendship?
She didn't say anything about not being friends....
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
