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Old 02-16-2011, 12:55 PM
 
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Daniel,

Sounds like you able to take advantage of both your situations. You said that you walk in the same direction for 5 minutes. What's to stop you from either stopping at your separation point or for you to walk in her direction in order to continue a conversation? You need to find a way to increase your time with her and the walk home seems to be your best option. You did say she lived near a mall, so if you can't think of a way to extend a conversation, just say you need to go buy something.

As to the guitar, is there a way you can use it at school, maybe for a presentation? It would give her something to talk about on your walk home. If she does ask about it, it would let you know that she does have some interest in what you do. Oh, if there's a guitar/music store at the mall, getting something for your guitar would be another way to bring it up.
After 5 minutes she gets home lol
I myself think the best way to increase my conversation time with her would definitely be at school. I don't there is this kind of presentation at my school, I'll check it tomorrow though!
Thanks!

What would be a good conversation starter at school?
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Old 02-16-2011, 01:27 PM
 
Location: overlooking the mighty MO
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you really are not this inept are you danny boy??? talk about anything you want --don't ask us your sitting in front of her -holy smokes- we might have to change your name to city databoy
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Old 02-16-2011, 01:33 PM
 
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Saw the title of your thread and I don’t think you should TRY to get a girlfriend. Start by becoming friends with whoever catches your eye. Let it flow naturally. If she becomes your girl, how nice! You didn’t even have to break a sweat as she was already your friend. If she doesn’t become your girlfriend, how nice! You just made another friend. You move on and make another friend and so on. You can get a girlfriend when you are not trying too hard.
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Old 02-16-2011, 01:33 PM
 
Location: Alaska
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After 5 minutes she gets home lol
I myself think the best way to increase my conversation time with her would definitely be at school. I don't there is this kind of presentation at my school, I'll check it tomorrow though!
Thanks!

What would be a good conversation starter at school?
Too bad. Would have been nicer if she turned left and you turned right at an intersection. It would definitely be creepy if you walked up to her door without an invite. I guess you can still pause in front of her house if you have a good conversation going.

I was thinking if you had a class presentation. You could be creative and incorporate some guitar playing as part of it. Some schools have talent shows, but it may have happened during fall semester or could happen during spring semester. A conversation starter would be anything she might be interested. If you share a class before lunch, that would be the best time to start it as it might continue during lunch.
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Old 02-16-2011, 03:57 PM
 
Location: The moon
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I agree... you do need to increase your time with her. You could ask her to go into that mall near her house with you... just use a random reason.

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C++ Code here; while (!near_mall()) { walk_to_mall++; } if (near_mall()) cout<<"Hey come with me into the mall because "<<Reason[rand()%99]<<" ! ";
Reason[] is an Array of strings with a lot of reasons in it.
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Old 02-16-2011, 04:46 PM
 
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I agree... you do need to increase your time with her. You could ask her to go into that mall near her house with you... just use a random reason.

Reason[] is an Array of strings with a lot of reasons in it.
Humm Random reason...
What about this, every monday and friday we have 4 classes together in the afternoon, I don't have time to come back home, have lunch and go back to school so I kinda have to eat around the school.
So my idea is that I could ask her to go have lunch at the mall too. Too soon?

haha your C++ code just reminded me of Sony's failed code with the ps3 lol

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int getRandonNumber()
{
_______ return 4; _____ // completely random

}
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Old 02-16-2011, 04:57 PM
 
Location: The moon
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Humm Random reason...
What about this, every monday and friday we have 4 classes together in the afternoon, I don't have time to come back home, have lunch and go back to school so I kinda have to eat around the school.
So my idea is that I could ask her to go have lunch at the mall too. Too soon?

haha your C++ code just reminded me of Sony's failed code with the ps3 lol
it sound good to me it could be a little soon... but I think if you give out a "I wanna be your friend" vibe... and don't give her an "I wanna be you BF" vibe... it will be okay.

Yeah... that's 100% random ))))))
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Old 02-17-2011, 03:24 PM
 
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Oh great, guess what?
She has found a friend that walks almost the same way as her so my *huge* amount of time (5 minutes) has been drastically reduced for 2 (if lucky).

Damn, Why do women have to walk in group?
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Old 02-17-2011, 03:49 PM
 
Location: Alaska
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Just engage both of them.
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Old 02-17-2011, 03:57 PM
 
Location: Afghanistan
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Well make sure your uniform is pressed and spiffy. Shine those shoes too!! You want to stand out among the other students as looking sharper. Something from my Marine Corps days.

regards,
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