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Old 03-09-2011, 04:26 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Originally Posted by Whyte Byrd View Post
Someone who wouldn't give, sure--I can take it or leave it. Someone who wouldn't take it, no--it's an aphrodisiac for the giver.
Another original response!

 
Old 03-10-2011, 11:25 AM
 
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I personally love doing it, but I also love receiving it. I don't think this would pass for me either.

It also speaks to their sexual desire to explore or try new things. If they aren't even willing to do oral, then how boring is your sex life going to be if you stay with this person?
This echoes my feelings also. I love giving it. It's one of life's great pleasures.
 
Old 03-10-2011, 11:29 AM
 
Location: in the Southeast
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In a relationship? Yes.

In a marriage? No.
 
Old 03-10-2011, 11:30 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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In a relationship? Yes.

In a marriage? No.
What's the difference...?
 
Old 03-10-2011, 12:00 PM
 
Location: in the Southeast
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What's the difference...?
The difference is more of a personal one than a general one, if that makes sense. I'm celibate and don't plan to have sex until I'm married. So yes, I could certainly be in a dating relationship with someone who won't take part in oral sex because I don't want to do all that anyway, while dating.

But once I get married, it's no holds barred... I want it ALL... lol.
 
Old 03-10-2011, 12:06 PM
 
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Granted most woman aren't as good at it as they think, it would be a deal breaker if they didn't do it at all. And I LOOOOOOOVE going down on a woman. If a woman didn't like receiving oral, that'd be a definite deal breaker as well.
 
Old 03-10-2011, 12:22 PM
 
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Marriage possibly? She wants to wait to have sex until marriage. We've done pretty much everything else besides that. She wants to have something to look forward to on her wedding night. I wanted to wait as well, but I ended up having sex with my previous girlfriend. SHE gave oral and it was incredible.

She truly tries to make me happy in every way, except this one so far. I don't know what to think.
Dude..don't seal the deal without having sex first. One doesn't buy a car without test driving it first!
 
Old 03-10-2011, 12:23 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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The difference is more of a personal one than a general one, if that makes sense. I'm celibate and don't plan to have sex until I'm married. So yes, I could certainly be in a dating relationship with someone who won't take part in oral sex because I don't want to do all that anyway, while dating.

But once I get married, it's no holds barred... I want it ALL... lol.
I see. That option never occurred to me.
 
Old 03-10-2011, 12:59 PM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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I see. That option never occurred to me.
Don't feel bad - it took me 35 years to figure out that everyone was NOT saying "aural sex" - I kept looking at their ears...
 
Old 03-10-2011, 01:24 PM
 
Location: Nashville, Tn
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could you be in a relationship with someone that wouldn't take part in oral sex
No, Nie, Nyet, Nee, Nope, Uh Uh, Naw, No Way, Neu, Noe (in Dan Quayle spelling), and Nomoa.
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