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Old 03-14-2011, 02:44 PM
 
Location: Nashville, Tn
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Any form of seduction is an excellent thing in my opinion. You should have immediately approached this woman to see how she followed up on her interesting gesture.
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Old 03-14-2011, 02:57 PM
 
Location: ATL with a side of Chicago
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Hows this, was in a position of semi power in the weekend. Interacted with many women and men during the day.

At one stage three women were going past, maybe a little younger than me maybe mid 20's, one of them caught my eye, as I must of done for her too. As she was walking past and making eye contact she put one of her fingers in her mouth lol and sucks it in and out.

Now that was pretty weird lol. Ladies have you ever done anything like this? Men have you ever experienced anything like this?
Haha! WHOA that is bold! Classy, too.

I've never seen anyone do that (although it is a trick to remove excess lipstick after applying, so it doesn't get on your teeth - but I do that in private!!!).
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Old 03-14-2011, 08:31 PM
 
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Hows this, was in a position of semi power in the weekend. Interacted with many women and men during the day.

At one stage three women were going past, maybe a little younger than me maybe mid 20's, one of them caught my eye, as I must of done for her too. As she was walking past and making eye contact she put one of her fingers in her mouth lol and sucks it in and out.

Now that was pretty weird lol. Ladies have you ever done anything like this? Men have you ever experienced anything like this?
Perhaps that was her way of saying "take a picture, it will last longer."
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Old 03-14-2011, 08:35 PM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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So let me get this straight - it's OK for guys to make kissing noises and grab their crotches, but if a woman plays it's bad?!?

Sounds like there's some jealousy going on here over the role-reversal...
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Old 03-14-2011, 08:36 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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I was too shocked/surprised to be turned on lol, shame that.
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Old 03-14-2011, 08:42 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles
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So let me get this straight - it's OK for guys to make kissing noises and grab their crotches, but if a woman plays it's bad?!?

Sounds like there's some jealousy going on here over the role-reversal...

Actually, it's not ok for men to do that. We just can't seem to stop them. The same way I wouldn't date a man who made those noises on the street, I wouldn't suggest the OP ever date a woman like that. Sure it's bold (which is great) but what is she saying?

A woman like this may be great to "date" but not for anything serious.
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Old 03-14-2011, 08:59 PM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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Actually, it's not ok for men to do that. We just can't seem to stop them.
Or do some women just not want to stop them?

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The same way I wouldn't date a man who made those noises on the street, I wouldn't suggest the OP ever date a woman like that. Sure it's bold (which is great) but what is she saying?
Perhaps she's saying that she is sexually aware and comfortable with that knowledge? Maybe she thought the OP was man enough to handle it?

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A woman like this may be great to "date" but not for anything serious.
It all depends - just because she has an uncommon way of flirting doesn't mean she isn't long-term material. People have different likes and dislikes; disqualifying her for every man based upon your personal opinion is hardly fair.
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Old 03-14-2011, 11:53 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles
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1. Or do some women just not want to stop them?


2. Perhaps she's saying that she is sexually aware and comfortable with that knowledge? Maybe she thought the OP was man enough to handle it?


3. It all depends - just because she has an uncommon way of flirting doesn't mean she isn't long-term material. People have different likes and dislikes; disqualifying her for every man based upon your personal opinion is hardly fair.
1. Well, I can only speak for myself, I do not think it's a compliment to have men doing that, I think it's embarrassing.

2. True, but if the first thing you do when you meet someone is sexually explicit, especially something as extreme as the example the OP provided. That doesn't say to me "Hi I want to get to know you" it says "Hi I want to jump your bones". If that turns a man on, fine he should go with it. However, I have to believe that most men who meet women who put sex out there like that don't think of them as future wife material. I'm sure there may be one or two that may but I don't think the majority would.

3. Agreed, she does have an uncommon way of flirting. Sucking on your fingers (which I took that to be a suggestive of something else), is very extreme flirting. I guess it's just something that I would never do for someone who I don't even know their name yet. That type of behavior should be reserved for someone who you are already in a relationship with.

It does seem to me that a lot of young women seem to think that sex is a way to a man's heart. We all know this is not true, there's a post every other week on CD by a woman who had sex with a man on the first date (in some cases the first meeting) and then wonders why he didn't call them. As far as the woman the OP references, I think that a better use of her boldness would have been to walk up to him, tell him he is attractive and give him her number.

But again, these are just MY opinions.
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Old 03-15-2011, 12:02 AM
 
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Hows this, was in a position of semi power in the weekend. Interacted with many women and men during the day.

At one stage three women were going past, maybe a little younger than me maybe mid 20's, one of them caught my eye, as I must of done for her too. As she was walking past and making eye contact she put one of her fingers in her mouth lol and sucks it in and out.

Now that was pretty weird lol. Ladies have you ever done anything like this? Men have you ever experienced anything like this?

haha nope, never

were you at Rose Hill or Randwick by any chance ?
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Old 03-15-2011, 12:12 AM
 
Location: Austin, Texas
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Hows this, was in a position of semi power in the weekend. Interacted with many women and men during the day.

At one stage three women were going past, maybe a little younger than me maybe mid 20's, one of them caught my eye, as I must of done for her too. As she was walking past and making eye contact she put one of her fingers in her mouth lol and sucks it in and out.

Now that was pretty weird lol. Ladies have you ever done anything like this? Men have you ever experienced anything like this?
I think I once read an article in Penthouse Forum that started off like that.
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