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Old 05-04-2011, 02:42 PM
 
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Yep, the wife and I parted ways back in October, after trying, and trying and trying, I concluded that there was nothing left in the relationship to work on.
She went back to Cali with the kids and now we're letting the court take care of the divorce.
Nothing to be sorry. For a relationship to work out, both parties must be committed to each other, not just one.

Oh well, I was told things will only get better but that remains to be seen.

Just wanted to share.
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Old 05-04-2011, 02:45 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Yep, the wife and I parted ways back in October, after trying, and trying and trying, I concluded that there was nothing left in the relationship to work on.
She went back to Cali with the kids and now we're letting the court take care of the divorce.
Nothing to be sorry. For a relationship to work out, both parties must be committed to each other, not just one.

Oh well, I was told things will only get better but that remains to be seen.

Just wanted to share.

Gee Mr. Cat, I'm so sorry.

I know you tried and tried, even moved across country to make her happy. I'm sorry she wasn't as willing to work it out as you were
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Old 05-04-2011, 02:45 PM
 
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That's too bad (or is that great!!)....hope peace comes your way....(peach of mind).
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Old 05-04-2011, 02:46 PM
 
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Gee Mr. Cat, I'm so sorry.

I know you tried and tried, even moved across country to make her happy. I'm sorry she wasn't as willing to work it out as you were
Hey there, no need to be sorry. Shyt happens ya know!
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Old 05-04-2011, 02:47 PM
 
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At least you tried, Gato.
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Old 05-04-2011, 02:48 PM
 
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That's too bad (or is that great!!)....hope peace comes your way....(peach of mind).
Thank you. Are you a redsucks fan?
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Old 05-04-2011, 02:49 PM
 
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At least you tried, Gato.
Many times.
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Old 05-04-2011, 02:55 PM
 
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Life gets better after divorce....trust me..I know...been divorced a little over a year and I too tried and tried...you can't be the only one working in a relationship and when you realize that, you get out! Anyway, best wishes to you!
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Old 05-04-2011, 03:09 PM
 
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Many times.
Look at the bright side Gato.....you have 8 more lives left to find love! Use them wisely!

Best wishes.
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Old 05-04-2011, 03:14 PM
 
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Thank you. Are you a redsucks fan?

hahaha - ya they are wicked pissah - seriously - I used to work there as a youngen!!
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