Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 03-29-2011, 09:04 PM
 
Location: Connecticut is my adopted home.
2,403 posts, read 3,846,625 times
Reputation: 7782

Advertisements

not a simple band (i feel like that would be over lying)

So you have ethics about telling a visual white lie to strangers by wearing a faux wedding band but not about being hostile, rude and unkind to those same strangers that take a risk to reach out to you?

Whatever.

Last edited by AK-Cathy; 03-29-2011 at 10:14 PM..
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 03-30-2011, 05:28 AM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
10,363 posts, read 20,856,027 times
Reputation: 15645
Quote:
Originally Posted by AK-Cathy View Post
not a simple band (i feel like that would be over lying)

So you have ethics about telling a visual white lie to strangers by wearing a faux wedding band but not about being hostile, rude and unkind to those same strangers that take a risk to reach out to you?

Whatever.
Well a girl has to have a little class about her lies.

BTW, anyone else thinking the title of this thread was a bit misleading?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 03-30-2011, 06:35 AM
 
1,090 posts, read 1,838,323 times
Reputation: 818
Quote:
Originally Posted by DrEarth View Post
or a good lay
probably
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 03-30-2011, 06:38 AM
 
1,090 posts, read 1,838,323 times
Reputation: 818
Quote:
Originally Posted by AK-Cathy View Post
not a simple band (i feel like that would be over lying)

So you have ethics about telling a visual white lie to strangers by wearing a faux wedding band but not about being hostile, rude and unkind to those same strangers that take a risk to reach out to you?

Whatever.
chill the f**k out. i wasn't trying to attack you.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 03-30-2011, 06:58 AM
 
1,176 posts, read 2,200,979 times
Reputation: 1128
Quote:
Originally Posted by sydney1987 View Post
I have a question. Every time a guy hits on me or tries to flirt, I get really pissed off.

What's wrong with me? It really ruins my inner peace and I wish I could just wear a sign that says "if you are looking for anything more than friendship, then back off"

I'm sending all these negative vibes and attention from any guy really stresses me out. There was this guy in one of my classes - goodlooking but he just would not shut up and I was trying to pay attention to the coursework.

HOw can I become a more pleasant and kind person? How can I better handle these situations? I think I just brutally crush/offend guys who try to be nice and it's not that I want to.... but I try to make myself clear..... And I hate being in that situation.

Like laughing at a guy's stupid jokes that are not funny to not hurt his feelings (done that, it gets tiring)
Going off on someone because he suggested that we have a lot in common

Really I am on a roll.

I think it might be b/c I like someone else and right now is not a good time for me to get into these things anyway.... How can I send this message out loud and clear?
try drugs. if scripts don't work try smoking a little bit of that green stuff once in a while.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 03-30-2011, 05:41 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
10,363 posts, read 20,856,027 times
Reputation: 15645
Quote:
Originally Posted by sydney1987 View Post
chill the f**k out. i wasn't trying to attack you.
Now you have.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 03-30-2011, 07:41 PM
 
1,090 posts, read 1,838,323 times
Reputation: 818
Quote:
Originally Posted by stepka View Post
Now you have.
meet me out back
and we can settle this!




once and for all. haha



btw, i was referring to Cathy tiger woman's post.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 03-30-2011, 07:47 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
14,580 posts, read 23,140,447 times
Reputation: 10364
Quote:
Originally Posted by mir86 View Post
I think you should calm down .
I was thinking that, but in much less kind words.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 03-30-2011, 07:48 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
10,363 posts, read 20,856,027 times
Reputation: 15645
Quote:
Originally Posted by sydney1987 View Post
btw, i was referring to Cathy tiger woman's post.
I know, but I was agreeing with her. I'm sorry--I know it can be intrusive when someone is trying to speak to you when you're busy but I don't think there's a good excuse to be rude to them. Just say you're busy and have a HUGE test tomorrow if you have to, but be nice. If you can't be it will come back to bite you in the butt later.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 03-30-2011, 07:50 PM
 
Location: The High Seas
7,371 posts, read 16,061,376 times
Reputation: 11869
Quote:
Originally Posted by sydney1987 View Post
I have a question. Every time a guy hits on me or tries to flirt, I get really pissed off.

What's wrong with me? It really ruins my inner peace and I wish I could just wear a sign that says "if you are looking for anything more than friendship, then back off"

I'm sending all these negative vibes and attention from any guy really stresses me out. There was this guy in one of my classes - goodlooking but he just would not shut up and I was trying to pay attention to the coursework.

HOw can I become a more pleasant and kind person? How can I better handle these situations? I think I just brutally crush/offend guys who try to be nice and it's not that I want to.... but I try to make myself clear..... And I hate being in that situation.

Like laughing at a guy's stupid jokes that are not funny to not hurt his feelings (done that, it gets tiring)
Going off on someone because he suggested that we have a lot in common

Really I am on a roll.

I think it might be b/c I like someone else and right now is not a good time for me to get into these things anyway.... How can I send this message out loud and clear?
Here's one line that'll deter even the bravest: "Oh, damn! my prolapsed anus!"
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 10:54 AM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top