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Old 03-31-2011, 10:47 AM
 
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For guys:
What is too high of a number of past sexual partners for a girl you may be interested in perusing a relationship with? Is there some sort of mental cut off point?

What is considered a slutty #, versus a girl whose experienced, vs a "good" girl?

What is the desired number?
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Old 03-31-2011, 10:53 AM
 
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it varies by the guy, to ME it does not matter.
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Old 03-31-2011, 10:54 AM
 
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The Golden Number = NOT KNOWING IT AT ALL!
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Old 03-31-2011, 10:56 AM
 
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1.68180339887... The number that yields the most aesthetically pleasing harmonious proportions in nature.... Oh wait, that's the golden ratio. My bad.
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Old 03-31-2011, 10:59 AM
 
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I think as long as they chose the partners wisely and dont have a lot of random sex partners then hey to each its own....also as long as they use protection!

But if I had to put a number on it I would say GUYS:12 GIRLS:6
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Old 03-31-2011, 11:01 AM
 
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It depends on age. A woman in her 30s with a "5" is in the good girl category, but a woman in her mid teens with the same number .. not so much. I think when it comes to this particular number it's a woman's perogative not to tell, and a gentleman shouldn't ask.
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Old 03-31-2011, 11:04 AM
 
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What is too high of a number of past sexual partners for a girl you may be interested in perusing a relationship with? Is there some sort of mental cut off point?

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Hmm... while perusing your question it strikes me that the key word is "past". How distant past is it? 4 this morning might change my answer some. There is also the definition of "relationship" to ponder.

I guess the mental cut off point is how many do you intend to pursue in the future?
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Old 03-31-2011, 11:08 AM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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I am pretty sure I'd prefer not to know. It would bother me if she had more partners than me, and my number isn't particularly high.
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Old 03-31-2011, 11:09 AM
 
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It depends on age. A woman in her 30s with a "5" is in the good girl category, but a woman in her mid teens with the same number .. not so much. I think when it comes to this particular number it's a woman's perogative not to tell, and a gentleman shouldn't ask.
So you're saying men don't deserve to know?
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Old 03-31-2011, 11:10 AM
 
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For guys:
What is too high of a number of past sexual partners for a girl you may be interested in perusing a relationship with? Is there some sort of mental cut off point?

What is considered a slutty #, versus a girl whose experienced, vs a "good" girl?

What is the desired number?
If she's truly a good girl, her number would be 0
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