This is my previous thread:
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The new woman that I was talking about in work who is part of upper management and has been flirting with me has been a little over the top with telling me what she wears on the dance floor and mentioning how hard the dating scene is, getting my attention if she notices me walking by her office and ect. After cancelling on the outing we were supposed to have invloving taking our dogs to the dog park. About two weeks later she mentioned it again and this time she asked me for my number (the first time she offered me hers). We did go out to lunch one day with 2 other employees from another department. I noticed when we were sitting at the table both our elbows were touching up against each others (which kinda means you wouldn't mind being in each others personal space, otherwise one would move or inch their elbow away, right?)
She came out to me the other day in her office so I also came out to her. She said she knew I was lesbian. I have no idea how because I am very straight looking! She says I gave off a vibe. We spoke on the phone later that night and all she did was brag about being with this woman and being with that woman. She even went into detail about sitting at a bar with this one woman and that she had her leg partially around her waist and that they were both "wet". It was like listening to soft porn. She was acting like a 23 yr old Jersey Shore cast member that is D-T-F...lol. She was saying how she really likes this one woman, but doesn't think it will work out bcuz the woman lives outta hotels and is never based on one area. Then she was saying she has another one that would be her second choice if her first can't commit and stay grounded in one geographical location. What a player!! She was also mentioning another woman that happened asked her out for Saturday night, but that she just wants to f**k her. She went on to say that straight women want her, and guys want her. I just listened and laughed! She says she has a sexual energy about her. She told me she would probably be at this one dance club that she knew I was going to then later on said she was probably gonna be there the next night. She also mentioned if I ever see her out in the club, she will probably be with a different person every time. She also says she doesn't want to hang out with me right now bcuz it's too risky bcuz we work together (which I can understand), but then don't toy with me! We agreed that talking or texting on the phone is fine to continue. I think she's afraid that if we do any more it will get around work.
Tonight when we were texting back and forth I was mentioning one of my exes that is trying to get back with me, but that I don't think i want to go there again and something must have irked her because after that she didn't respond to any more texts.
Do you think this sound like a narcissistic person? Maybe manipulative and controlling? Think she might like me but is frustrated over the whole work situation?
I don't even know if I believe everything she was telling me because last week she was telling me the dating scene is so hard, she doesn't get out a lot and that she's been bored and needs to get out. The above hardly sounds like a "bored" person..lol
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