**UPDATE to my previous thread "How should I express romantic interest?" (date, lesbian)
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I sent her a message on Facebook. I just asked her if she would like to go to dinner or hang out. She knows I have plans to visit her city (90 mins from me) in December with friends from previous correspondence we had. She replied right away saying " when you get into town call me. It would be fun to hang out and maybe even go to a girl's (lesbian) bar." (I did ask her to recommend an L bar in the past). She also gave me her number and I gave her mine.
Does that sound like a sincere and positive reply from her? Does the fact that she mentioned an L bar mean that she might be taking it as a "hook up" (as in coming back to my hotel room). Not that I'd be opposed (well as far as I can tell since I never met her in person lol)
Maybe. Set up a date and time, then go from there. I personally don't do the "call me when you're town and maybe we'll hang" thing unless I really don't care about seeing the person.
She suggested the bar, not me. I think she may have suggested the bar because when I was corresponding with her on fb a month or so ago, I did ask her to recommend any good lesbian bars in her city for my upcoming visit. Do you think the bar possibly suggests a "one night stand" type vibe?
Idk maybe. Hard to say, sorry. I would maybe go to the bar and then ask to go to dinner or get something to eat. Good luck
Thanks, Kat247!
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