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Old 04-05-2011, 01:11 PM
 
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I haven't figured out if this is a complaint or a brag.
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Old 04-05-2011, 01:35 PM
 
Location: In a happy, quieter home now! :)
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Fire the dirtbag's a$$ immediately AND tell his wife. Maggot that he is.
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Old 04-05-2011, 01:49 PM
 
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Just tell him you're not interested and if he doesn't back off, fire him.

Keep in mind that this guy probably gets laid all the time by his female employers. A good-looking guy who cleans houses? Is there a bigger turn on???

My husband knows that to make me melt all he has to do is fire up the vacuum cleaner or clean out the refrigerator. Seriously.
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Old 04-05-2011, 01:59 PM
 
Location: Hoyvík, Faroe Islands
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Flirt back, make him wear a chastity tube as part of an erotic game, then give the key to the wife. Let him keep cleaning as long as he is wearing the device. Fire him if he ever takes it off. You aren't bothered by he free meat, his wife can now ensure his fidelity and he is left hot and bothered and denied any further lapses in judgment. He wouldn't want any other ladies find out about his jewels being locked away. How does one explain that without sounding like a complete pervert? Laughed at? Humiliated?
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Old 04-05-2011, 09:40 PM
 
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That's what I was thinking..........


Tell him to get a real job.......
Maybe his real job is gigolo and he's just dropping a lot of hints.
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Old 04-05-2011, 10:28 PM
 
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Since good housekeepers are hard to find, I would have a talk with him and let him know without a doubt you are not interested and that you don't appreciate this happening. I would tell if he over steps these boundaries again you will fire him. I believe he deserves a second chance, something made him think it was alright to flirt with you, make sure he knows better (maybe he misunderstood the funny pix on Facebook). I do not agree with the posters who say you should fire him. People make mistakes, and sometimes they deserve a second chance. If the housekeeper would have been a woman, you would have gotten much different replies.

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Old 04-05-2011, 10:42 PM
 
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Question I'm curious...

Why everyone is jumping to such conclusions and assuming this is all the housekeepers doing? Sounds like there was a bit of 'texting' going on and that
our OP has probably starting something she shouldn't have and now the only way to get a handle on it is to blame him..fire him...tell his wife...yada yada yada...
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Old 04-05-2011, 10:49 PM
 
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On second thought, you said "This guy comes at the drop of a hat",that comment can be taken more than one way, just what did you mean by that?
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Old 04-05-2011, 11:41 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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This thread had a cool start but the ending ...

[cue porno music]
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Old 04-05-2011, 11:44 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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On second thought, you said "This guy comes at the drop of a hat",that comment can be taken more than one way, just what did you mean by that?
Well, he is a housekeeper so he should have no problem cleaning it up .

[Simple Green will do the trick]
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