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That depends on what the fetish is, of course, and how extreme. For instance, lots of men get turned on my women in high heels. I could parade around in high heels once in a while; that would be just fine. However, if that's the only way a guy can perform, then I'd start to feel that he's more aroused by the high heels than by me, the person. I'd feel like I was being objectified.
A more mundane comparison: I love cheese. The only reason that a grilled cheese sandwich consists of bread and cheese is to keep the melted cheese from oozing all over the place with no structure. In the scenario above, I'd feel like the bread.
That depends on what the fetish is, of course, and how extreme. For instance, lots of men get turned on my women in high heels. I could parade around in high heels once in a while; that would be just fine. However, if that's the only way a guy can perform, then I'd start to feel that he's more aroused by the high heels than by me, the person. I'd feel like I was being objectified.
A more mundane comparison: I love cheese. The only reason that a grilled cheese sandwich consists of bread and cheese is to keep the melted cheese from oozing all over the place with no structure. In the scenario above, I'd feel like the bread.
i agree, so long as the fetish is not REQUIRED in order for performance then it is no big deal once in a while. just like anything else, moderation is the key.
If you asked me to call you "daddy" and wanted to spank me because I was naughty I'd be running for the hills!
Lol!
Guess you found someone who wants an AB for himself.
But that kind of is the point. There are fetishes we all have. Fantasies we want to fulfill. At what point are they a turn off?
I know couples that are into cuckolding. A major turn off when I see the one fall out of love for the husband but still love him in other ways. Breaks my heart to see that happen.
An AB. The Dom/sub situation you described fits AB/LG fetishes, but going into the details about what it is will not go over well with the Mods and for good reason; although this forum is more adult, it still shouldn't become explicit.
Best place to find more about it is a sexual psychology text book.
AB/LG have the same roots in psychology, but the age at which the subject last felt secure is different.
LG stands for Little Girl while AB stands for Adult Baby.
A common scene is the LG over the knee for that spanking, which is when you start running for the hills.
But there are plenty of other cases where a partner is asked to fulfill a strong fantasy that he or she otherwise never encountered before and not have any real interest in other than making the other person happy. I am interested in hearing how one copes with that kind of pressure?
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