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Old 05-02-2011, 01:32 AM
 
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For my continued campaign to find a wife............Dear God When? When? When?

Please make it soon.............

Here's my latest:

Wouldn't You

Wouldn't you like to be in a position where you no longer have to open yourself
up to ***holes and put up with them? You no longer would have to be insulted by
these smutty mouthed pigs who ask you sex questions the first time they talk to
you or meet you. You would no longer have to go through all the tension and
stress of preparing for and meeting yet another would be "suitor" who turns out
no good.

Instead wouldn't you enjoy sharing your life with a good, caring man who you can
share all your hopes, dreams, frustrations, fears with and know that he listens
to every word you say and that he will never betray your confidence.

Wouldn't you enjoy spending life with such a man? Going to dinner with him,
movies, vacations, concerts, malls, plays? Being with him at family and friends
get togethers and celebrations instead of being alone?

Have you ever wondered how you can finally get a GOOD husband?

How much better would life be for you with such a husband?

Also think of how impressed everyone will be when they see that you are with a
man who treats you right. Think of all the people you know who have the bad
marriages or the failed marriages, think of how impressed they'll be with you
when they see you achieved something they will never achieve no matter how "good
looking" or tall or rich their cheating, abusive, neglectful etc husband is.

A man really appreciates something when he has to strive for it as hard as I do.
A man doesn't do anything to ruin something that's beautiful for both people if
he had to wait as long for love as I'm waiting.
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Old 05-02-2011, 06:01 AM
 
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Maybe you post that on the personals forum...or any personals in the local paper or internet and see if that works. Lol.
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Old 05-02-2011, 07:16 AM
 
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For my continued campaign to find a wife............Dear God When? When? When?

Please make it soon.............
Good grief

Your whole posting reeks of desperation and anger at women. Not to mention the many assumptions concerning that you would be different than those bad guys that women go for. Based on the amount of resentment I read in your "Want ad" it is not to hard to imagine you become a very bad guy if the object of your desire should not to turn out as you desired.

Stop thinking of women as being all that different than the average guy you run into. They make bad choices not because they always are deliberating to do so. They make them because events unfold sometimes that they can not predict. After all, like guys, there are smart ones and there are stupid ones. There are ones that have to learn by experience and others that never learn.

As to not having the relationship that you would really want, feel you need (being married), bad things happen to good people all the time.

I do not believe the approach you attempting (ad) will produce positive results. What you are offering to women is a product they would not buy. Never insult your customer.
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Old 05-02-2011, 09:54 AM
 
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A man doesn't do anything to ruin something that's beautiful for both people if
he had to wait as long for love as I'm waiting.
men don't "wait" for dates. that is not one of the traditional gender roles that you want to defy.
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Old 05-02-2011, 10:00 AM
 
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You need to tweak it and cut out about the other guys. Women already know there's a$$holes out there, they don't need to be reminded. And it's smug to put being in a good marriage and other women will be jealous of your wife. Take that out too.

Have you thought about joining church single groups or go to church dances? How about volunteering at organizations where the women you are looking for will be there?
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Old 05-02-2011, 10:04 AM
 
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Here's the problem. You're selling negatives rather than positives. Pain avoidance is not a good way to sell anything. By opening up with a series of negatives, you basically depict yourself as a negative person. And who the hell wants to be saddled with that in life?
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Old 05-02-2011, 10:15 AM
 
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Here's the problem. You're selling negatives rather than positives. Pain avoidance is not a good way to sell anything. By opening up with a series of negatives, you basically depict yourself as a negative person. And who the hell wants to be saddled with that in life?
^^This is what I was trying to say. Take out the negatives.
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Old 05-02-2011, 10:17 AM
 
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^^This is what I was trying to say. Take out the negatives.
Yep. The key axiom of good creative is to sell benefits.
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Old 05-02-2011, 11:13 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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Your whole posting reeks of desperation
Absolutely!

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I do not believe the approach you attempting (ad) will produce positive results.
Me, neither.
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Old 05-02-2011, 04:16 PM
 
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Wow, Walt, I hope you find that special someone soon.....you sound like a good man!!
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