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Old 05-03-2011, 10:48 PM
 
Location: michigan
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I was just curious because I'm 8 months pregnant and feel so unattractive that even though my figure hasn't changed (little more vulumcous), I can't feel very sexual when I don't feel sexy. He always says I'm sexy to him..which is sweet but i feel so boring. I miss sending him hot pics and just feeling desired. I want honesty here...kinda a boner kill hugh? Thanx for the input
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Old 05-03-2011, 11:00 PM
 
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Too bad you're feeling that way. Alot of woman feel sexy when pregnant. It just gave me such confidence and knowledge that I was carrying a life inside of me.

It's all in your attitude and its a shame because being pregnant is suppose to be a happy time and you're making it miserable on yourself and your man.

Pregnant women can still be sexy and hot. But if you're thinking other men think pregnant women are hot and sexy, no. I don't think so nor would I want another man lusting after me while carrying another man's baby.

To answer your question, I think some men see pregnant women as cute maybe attractive. Each man is different since some men might find pregnant women fat and gross looking. Who knows and who cares.

Enjoy this happy time in your life and stop stressing about nonsense.
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Old 05-03-2011, 11:05 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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My husband thinks I look great! I think I look fat! But I always think I look fat... I've gotten a lot of compliments - but it's hard having your body change!
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Old 05-03-2011, 11:19 PM
 
Location: michigan
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I should have been more clear..I'm wondering if men really find their sigificant other sexy when pregnant. I'm happy and wouldnt change a thing I guess its hard 2 have sex at this point feling like I swallowed a bowling ball..lol.
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Old 05-03-2011, 11:21 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I should have been more clear..I'm wondering if men really find their sigificant other sexy when pregnant. I'm happy and wouldnt change a thing I guess its hard 2 have sex at this point feling like I swallowed a bowling ball..lol.
My husband says he finds me attractive right now - I just don't feel very attractive. I told him that I was really glad he thinks I look so good - because if we both thought I looked bad, I'd be really upset!
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Old 05-04-2011, 12:48 AM
 
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I got complimented a lot when I was pregnant. My boyfriend never really came out and said it but he sure showed me he liked what he saw if you know what I mean
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Old 05-04-2011, 04:28 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Some men have a fetish for pregnant women. I'd estimate 10% of men or so.
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Old 05-04-2011, 04:34 AM
 
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Back in the 80's when Demi Moore came out naked while pregnant on the cover of a magazine, everyone thought it was weird. But then again, it was Demi, so everyone then became used to seeing naked bellies all over the place. Unless you are overly big because of fat instead of just being pregnant, you should take a cue from Demi and feel as sexy as possible, if possible.
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Old 05-04-2011, 06:18 AM
 
Location: michigan
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True..thanku!
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Old 05-04-2011, 06:19 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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I think alot of men are "torn" on this subject. Alot of men find something quite "feminine" about pregnant women. Pregnant womens faces take on a completely different look. Sort of a aura that men find irresistable.But since us men dont really know what you physically feel, we sometimes dont know how to approach the subject of sex with you. Your sex appeal DOES NOT diminish in most mens eyes while you are pregnant. In some ways it actually increases. Us men just dont know what to do with these confusing feelings we have about whether we should ravish you or treat you like the queen you are while pregnant.
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