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Old 05-22-2011, 07:34 PM
 
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I like this guy and I am frustrated with the fact that I am attracted to him because I am scared that he will reject me. Subconsciously, I do things to annoy him and so that he can reject me quicker. I REALLy like him and I messed up badly. How long will it take before he thinks of me more than an annoying woman.

Does distance help with annoyance.
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Old 05-22-2011, 07:36 PM
 
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I like this guy and I am frustrated with the fact that I am attracted to him because I am scared that he will reject me. Subconsciously, I do things to annoy him and so that he can reject me quicker. I REALLy like him and I messed up badly. How long will it take before he thinks of me more than an annoying woman.

Does distance help with annoyance.
Yes. You should get as far away as possible from him.
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Old 05-22-2011, 07:37 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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It depends on how hot you are.
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Old 05-22-2011, 07:41 PM
 
Location: The Triad
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It depends on how hot you are.
yep. that and the sex.
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Old 05-22-2011, 07:43 PM
 
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give him 2 weeks, don't contact him and he'll come around wondering where you went . Works every time.
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Old 05-22-2011, 08:45 PM
 
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Don't listen to them except the sex and hot part . But even before the sex you need to let him know that you are sorry without saying it. If you know what he likes get it for him. The way to a mans heart is through his stomach. Buy him one of his favorite foods for lunch, then you can wait for him to come back...4 hrs max. Giving him the lunch in front of whoever (deliver it yourself). It lets him know you are feeling him but you still don't have to say it. If you like him you don't have to tell him but you better start acting like at the least before he moves on.
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Old 05-22-2011, 10:07 PM
 
Location: SWUS
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give him 2 weeks, don't contact him and he'll come around wondering where you went . Works every time.
Diabolical as far as games go, but absolutely works.
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Old 05-22-2011, 10:17 PM
 
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give him 2 weeks, don't contact him and he'll come around wondering where you went . Works every time.
No, sorry, it doesn't.

I'd suggest to the OP that she get some therapy. It's not normal or healthy to be sabotaging relationships.
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Old 05-22-2011, 10:50 PM
 
Location: Maryland's 6th District.
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I like this guy and I am frustrated with the fact that I am attracted to him because I am scared that he will reject me. Subconsciously, I do things to annoy him and so that he can reject me quicker. I REALLy like him and I messed up badly. How long will it take before he thinks of me more than an annoying woman.

Does distance help with annoyance.
Guys do not hold on to things like women do. You don't really need distance, except for maybe a day or two. Chances are he has already "forgiven" you. The moment you stop being annoying is the moment the guy will have forgotten all about your annoying antics.
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Old 05-22-2011, 11:22 PM
 
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it depends on how attractive you are and how desperate he is. Its an inverse relationship. This is very true.
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