Author: Adriane Ashley
Book: Every single girls guide to her future husbands last divorce
Current thought trend:
Prenuptial Agreements are unromantic
The Doc says:
It's the most romantic engagement gift that you can give, because you are practically insuring the longevity of your marriage.
It's basically how you wouldn't drive without car insurance. You have life insurance to take care of bills and to help protect your family. Prenuptial s are not encase you get divorced, that's the last thing on our mind when getting married. That's the first thing people jump toward, because of how the brainwashing has lead them to believe. Just as with mortgages, people believe the rate is what counts, when the rate is only a fraction toward the contract. The Media has provided their services to compromise themselves and our thoughts. We should be looking the the true costs for everything.
In a prenupt, you can agree to include how we both could not put down 'irreducible differences' in the divorce.
The intention of the prenuptial is to have these disclosures and conversations upfront ahead of time. Planning before you get married, you can strategies, reducing stress for the longevity. Financial stress will be reduced with a clear concise plan. Conditional love will occur prior to the marriage vs after the marriage. A good relationship/marriage is extremely hard work. Personally, the marriage document is only making our dating legal with the state. Maybe that's why the trend is toward being single, or single with a significant lover. TO create happiness, love and joy.
Prenuptial s are now consider to be normal so you're both protected. Donald Trump figured out after multiple divorces how valuable the prenuptial agreement truly becomes.
If something happens in the future, where you marry a gold digger. This provides instant respect with the existing children.
I wouldn't marry anyone who has an issue with a prenuptial. By planning our entire future, intending the best by clearing the air when it comes to children, economics, short and long term goals. If the conversations are early, getting it out first, the compromises will start earlier versus finding out later, about themselves and the sudden compromise.
A few examples to consider for the prenuptial: Holiday trips, Ownership goals, Money to save, Hobbies, Pets, Investment of capital, Home ownership, assets of the two parties.
Compromise is about the middle road, being objective and taking/giving.
"Divorce is a game played by lawyers."
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