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I am 18 years younger than my husband. I am very attractive with a beautiful face, huge chest, small waist, and I am very sweet. My husband is 52 and does not seem to have the desire to have sex with me. I started out taking him by the hand and explaining why sex is a very important part of marriage and i feel we need to have more of it because it brings us closer together and It fills a need we have. He said he felt the same way. We have sex for a few weeks then back to 1 or 2 times a week. I have had the same conversation 3 or 4 timeswith the same result. Now I am at the point where I just complain about not having enough sex. I have suggested weekend away to spice things up. He says ok but never follows through. Also when we have sex i am in charge of positions, outfits,anything to make it exciting. He told me about a year ago he was going to be tested for low t but he did not follow through. I love my husband and want to have a good sex live with him. My question is are there other people in the same situation and how do you deal with it?
IDK.... my guess would be to continue letting him know how you feel, and get him to wake up and realize what he is "missing out on."
If he still does not take notice, tell him to enjoy his life, without you in it!
Life is too damn short to be playing head games with someone who isn`t even interested in playing... Screw that! Good Luck!
I am 18 years younger than my husband. I am very attractive with a beautiful face, huge chest, small waist, and I am very sweet. My husband is 52 and does not seem to have the desire to have sex with me. I started out taking him by the hand and explaining why sex is a very important part of marriage and i feel we need to have more of it because it brings us closer together and It fills a need we have. He said he felt the same way. We have sex for a few weeks then back to 1 or 2 times a week. I have had the same conversation 3 or 4 timeswith the same result. Now I am at the point where I just complain about not having enough sex. I have suggested weekend away to spice things up. He says ok but never follows through. Also when we have sex i am in charge of positions, outfits,anything to make it exciting. He told me about a year ago he was going to be tested for low t but he did not follow through. I love my husband and want to have a good sex live with him. My question is are there other people in the same situation and how do you deal with it?
You realize that older men eventually lose there sex drive, right?
1 or 2 times a week is probably good for him. He may need tested, but you've got 18 years on him and you're starting to peek. It's going to be rough for him.
You realize that older men eventually lose there sex drive, right?
1 or 2 times a week is probably good for him. He may need tested, but you've got 18 years on him and you're starting to peek. It's going to be rough for him.
Sex drive does not always correlate with age, at least not for men in their 50s. There can be many factors involved from emotional to physical (and not necessarily physical issues caused by aging). He could also be having an affair or just fallen out of love.
To the OP my husband is the same age with almost the same age difference between us and he is still a sex god. I have to fight him off if it's less than once a day and often he "does it himself" a couple times a day if we ever can't for some reason (I never avoid him but sometimes circumstances get in the way).
You realize that older men eventually lose there sex drive, right?
1 or 2 times a week is probably good for him. He may need tested, but you've got 18 years on him and you're starting to peek. It's going to be rough for him.
I hate to think sex with me would be "rough on him" I would hope he would want me. He does have viagra but I think 52 is not that old.
You realize that older men eventually lose there sex drive, right?
1 or 2 times a week is probably good for him. He may need tested, but you've got 18 years on him and you're starting to peek. It's going to be rough for him.
I don't know, Froggie - I'm 53, my lady is 31 and our average is a lot better than 1x or 2x a week...
I think it's a very individual thing, and I would advise caution about low T testing - I have the feeling it's just the latest in a long line of pseudo-ailments. Certainly go for it, but just be careful not to get caught up in the whole T thing - as you said, it's natural for older guys to start losing it, but the age range varies greatly.
Sex drive does not always correlate with age, at least not for men in their 50s. There can be many factors involved from emotional to physical (and not necessarily physical issues caused by aging). He could also be having an affair or just fallen out of love.
To the OP my husband is the same age with almost the same age difference between us and he is still a sex god. I have to fight him off if it's less than once a day and often he "does it himself" a couple times a day .we ever can't for some reason (I never avoid him but sometimes circumstances get in the way).
Thank you, I don't think he is having an affair or has fallen out of love with me. He is very romantic. For every 1 thing bad i can say about him I can say 100 things good. He works full time, cooks, gives great massages. But just as you say you are in the same boat but your husband still wants sex. I don't understand why mine does not.
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