Question For Middle Aged Women, Are You Open To The Idea Of Having Sex With A Man Young Enough To Be Your Son ?

[Shellsandwater]

I had many chances when I was in my 40's but choose not to. These men were close to my childrens age and I just couldn't go there. Maybe if there would have been some common goals it may have been different.

[JustJulia]

Originally Posted by The Nostalgia Critic

Did most women here vote "no" because they are not old enough to have a son who is over the age of 18 ? And the women who did vote "yes", are all old enough to be the mother of an adult man ?

That's true, at least for me. There wasn't an "unknown" option, so I didn't vote. I can't guess now how I would feel then.

[The Nostalgia Critic]

Hulk Hogan's ex-wife Linda is currently in a relationship with a man who is 29 years younger than her. Would this have been unheard of 50 years ago ? Times are a changing.

[Yzette]

I'm 44, so 20 years would mean he would be 24. Nah. I don't need a puppy following me around looking lovelorn.

However, were I 50 and he 30, oh, hell yes. By 30 he would know better than to start moonin' and he would be too grown up to think in terms of "experiencing an older woman" like it's some kind of experiment or conquest (one would hope). So I would have to say that 30 is a magic number.

Unless he was [URL="http://www.google.com/search?q=henry+cavill&hl=en&prmd=ivnslo&tbm=isch&t bo=u&source=univ&sa=X&ei=WfjuTZrpJeHc0QHZu9X2DA&ve d=0CCkQsAQ&biw=1280&bih=681"]Henry Cavill[/URL]. He is currently 28, and if I were 48, or 50, or 55, or old enough to be his grandmother, I'd make an exception for him. Although it would be kind of strange because at times he bears a wee smidge of a resemblance to my SO, depending on his haircut, facial hair, and expression.

Hey, I'm hard-wired. So sue me!

[JerZ]

Originally Posted by Yzette

Unless he was Henry Cavill. He is currently 28, and if I were 48, or 50, or 55, or old enough to be his grandmother, I'd make an exception for him.

(fainting) (picking self up) (fainting again) This dude IS HOT. Interestingly, I would not have guessed him so young. I'd have thought by his acting (The Tudors is the only show I've seen him in) that he was older. Don't quite know how to explain that...

But...

But I...but uh...what was I saying? Oh, who the hell cares???? That man is VERY effable. In Henry's case I truly wouldn't care how old he was. Just...wouldn't care.

(collecting self) So we were saying?

[boodhabunny]

I voted "No". My son is 30 years old.

I've always been attracted to men who are more experienced, more worldly, more sophisticated, etc. Young men (and older men) whom do not fit the above description are of no interest to me regardless of how hot they might be.

I don't like playing the "momma" role with a man I'm romantically involved with. It turns me off.