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Old 05-31-2011, 07:06 PM
 
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A female colleague is leaving soon. She's one of the most polite women I've ever worked with, did her job well and will be missed by more people than just me. Besides a simple farewell card signed by a bunch of us, I'd like to include a token gift under $20.
I asked 2 women at work for ideas but one said she doesn't like to celebrate birthdays/holidays in that sense while the other suggested the usual fare like mall/particular store or movie tickets gift certificate. Hmm... I'd like to get her something unique, not a fruit bowl or anything that she can easily go to the grocery store and buy.

How a small bouquet of flowers? I don't want to give the wrong impression that I like her, it's strictly business. The team she's leaving has some real bitter and petty people who are liable to stir up some rumors.
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Old 05-31-2011, 07:11 PM
 
Location: Brambleton, VA
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Does she like Starbucks or another store? Most flowers/cookie bouquets, etc. will be a bit more than $20 but I am sure a nice gift card or even a $20 bill would be appreciated by her.
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Old 05-31-2011, 07:12 PM
 
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When I left a job that I had for 10 years, the busdriver gave me a small bouquet on my last ride home. I was quite touched because I didn't expect it from him. Indeed, it choked me up.

To avoid any miscommunication, when you give it to her, just tell her that it was great working with her and you wish her well in her new job.
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Old 05-31-2011, 07:13 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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Get her a bra

I actually did that once and it created a firestorm. Of course, I wanted to create trouble and she was hindu. Go figure LMAO hahaha
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Old 05-31-2011, 07:15 PM
 
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Nuts.
Seriously, write on the card what you wrote in your OP, a sincere compliment as such will go along way.
Then the nuts.
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Old 05-31-2011, 07:18 PM
 
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To avoid any miscommunication, when you give it to her, just tell her that it was great working with her and you wish her well in her new job.
I actually plan to leave the gift on her desk for her to discover the next morning (her last day) + as I said, the card will be signed by several people so she probably won't know the gift is from me. I just hate it when people email asking for donations towards a bridal shower gift / bachelorette party, etc. at work. I usually ignore that kind of soliciting and don't want to stir up rumors from the hen house (my job has twice as many women working there as men).
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Old 05-31-2011, 07:23 PM
 
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Get her a big jar of pistachios or cashews. Those are the best nuts.
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Old 05-31-2011, 07:53 PM
 
Location: CasaMo
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How a small bouquet of flowers? I don't want to give the wrong impression that I like her, it's strictly business.
Sorry. Not buyin' that one.
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Old 05-31-2011, 10:24 PM
 
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Go to Office Max and look at their designer pens, they even have some made of leather and they aren't that expensive.
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Old 05-31-2011, 10:26 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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No offence, but isn't a $20 max abit cheap
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