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Old 06-16-2011, 01:10 AM
 
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It's really awkward feeling. I was walking around with this lady I met recently. It wasn't a date, just a friendly thing. It was weird because our hands touched a couple times on accident when we were walking. And we just pretend that it didn't happen twice in a minute. It's not like it normally happens with people. It doesn't really matter, just got me wondering.
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Old 06-16-2011, 01:13 AM
 
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What are you wondering? Whether or not it was flirting?
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Old 06-16-2011, 01:19 AM
 
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What are you wondering? Whether or not it was flirting?


well, it's probably not on purpose flirting. has to be something subconscious. i mean if i were repelled by them i guess i would stand farther away so it wouldn't be possible,
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Old 06-16-2011, 01:20 AM
 
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I'm not quite sure I understand the point you're making ?
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Old 06-16-2011, 01:26 AM
 
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I'm not quite sure I understand the point you're making ?
I'm trying to figure this out too...OP...did you...want her to touch you? Want her not to touch you? Are you trying to figure out how to avoid it or are you feeling out whether she's attracted to you or what?

I have had just-friends "accidentally touch" me. Or I assumed it was accidental. It's so hard to know without knowing what the circumstances were...you must, however, been walking pretty close to have your hands keep touching!

Maybe you can elaborate a little...just not sure what ya want to know...ETA: Did she pull back or anything after it happened?
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Old 06-16-2011, 01:29 AM
 
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Sometimes when u r walking next to someone u touch... No big deal unless u were trying to make a move or maybe in ur subconscious u wanted to. Either way I wouldn't read anything into it unless u want to.
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Old 06-16-2011, 05:36 AM
 
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Sometimes when u r walking next to someone u touch... No big deal unless u were trying to make a move or maybe in ur subconscious u wanted to. Either way I wouldn't read anything into it unless u want to.
This is common when walking with someone. This happens to me with a buddy of mine often; His response-STOP TRYING TO HOLD MY HAND, SIR!! Always gets a laugh. We are not lepers, after all. Don't worry about this! It's Summer-Enjoy the sun and good company.
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Old 06-16-2011, 05:41 AM
 
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Did you like it??
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Old 06-16-2011, 06:37 AM
 
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well, it's probably not on purpose flirting. has to be something subconscious. i mean if i were repelled by them i guess i would stand farther away so it wouldn't be possible,
Yep, maybe it wasn't a mistake on her part.
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Old 06-16-2011, 09:18 AM
 
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You probably wouldn't be giving it a second thought if you didn't feel some kind of spark from it.
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