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How to seduce a man? Just let him know you want him...that should be all it takes. If it takes more, he is not interested in you. This is easy. Stand there, make eye contact, smile a slow sexy smile, and he should get the idea. If he is interested, he will make the next move.
Simply say to him "Follow me, we're going to have sex". The overwhelming majority of men including myself will instantly stop whatever they might be doing and do as they're instructed.
Not me! I want a woman's heart first, not her body.
Now "seduction" by being caring, sweet, gentle, affectionate, soft, and loving...that I'll take any day!
To OP: maybe a combination, of the 2 methods? Just b/c if you show the physical goods only, how does he know that you love/care about him, more than just at the physical level?
Simply say to him "Follow me, we're going to have sex". The overwhelming majority of men including myself will instantly stop whatever they might be doing and do as they're instructed.
Yea pretty much. If I was interested, that is all you would have to do. Easy and simple.
Not me! I want a woman's heart first, not her body.
Now "seduction" by being caring, sweet, gentle, affectionate, soft, and loving...that I'll take any day!
To OP: maybe a combination, of the 2 methods? Just b/c if you show the physical goods only, how does he know that you love/care about him, more than just at the physical level?
Potential heartbreak...for example, if you love her (capital "L" style), but if she's only interested in you, physically That's why I could never, ever do something like FWB or a one-night stand (and in addition to personal / religious beliefs).
Thanks for all the replies. And of course want his heart and his body. Like I said, if I can't have a relationship with him right now (due to him being in the marines, it would make it difficult) I do still want a physical relationship. I have for years now and it is just driving me crazy, I need to let it out. There is a lot of love but also lust in this situation. He knows I love and care for him, I emphasize on that in our friendship. It's not like I want to use him for physical gain only.
Thanks for all the replies. And of course want his heart and his body. Like I said, if I can't have a relationship with him right now (due to him being in the marines, it would make it difficult) I do still want a physical relationship. I have for years now and it is just driving me crazy, I need to let it out. There is a lot of love but also lust in this situation. He knows I love and care for him, I emphasize on that in our friendship. It's not like I want to use him for physical gain only.
I understand...no worries, I wasn't trying to imply that in any way, loveleelady You definitely sound as though you love and care for him, deeply and very much!
Good luck to you!! I hope you guys end up very happy and completely in love and happiness, together
Last edited by Phoenix2017; 06-21-2011 at 12:34 PM..
Reason: Corrections
Well we planned to have a couple drinks but nothing crazy. Besides, I don't want to take advantage of him, I want him to want it too and be aware of it.
Also, the problem with saying "follow me, we're going to have sex" is I don't know his reaction. What if he stops me and says he doesn't see me like that? That would make the night totally awkward! Lol I do appreciate the advice, I just have to be cautious. I'm afraid of rejection and harming our friendship.
Next time you two are alone, sit next to him and without a word, take him by the hand, lean your head on his shoulder. Slowly look up at him. If there's anything there, you'll know it.
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I want a woman's heart first, not her body.
That's why I could never, ever do something like FWB or a one-night stand (and in addition to personal / religious beliefs).
You definitely sound as though you love and care for him, deeply and very much!
