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The condom cougar (haha what a funny nickname) also stared at me a lot during class. That's another reason why I thought she was into me.
But by your own admission - you are not good at reading people. I mean, I guess it really doesn't matter. You can think whatever you want and it won't really make a difference either way.
Why is it that cougars are attracted to me? I don't mind as long as the cougar is attractive. But it would be nice if someone closer in age to me showed interest in me for a change.
On the rare occasion someone showed interest in me during college, it's been a cougar.
Is there any reason why cougars would be attracted to a young person? Is it something about me?
But by your own admission - you are not good at reading people. I mean, I guess it really doesn't matter. You can think whatever you want and it won't really make a difference either way.
Yes, I admit I'm not good at reading people. But all the dating advice I've read says if a female stares at you a lot, it means she has a thing for you.
That's just common sense anyway. Why else would someone stare at me a lot?
There's no such thing as an overweight cougar. I think you're getting hit on by bears! Perhaps your cologne smells bologna.
Lose the bologna and maybe girls your own age will be attracted to you. I don't see an over abundance of woman in their 30s and 40s going after guys in their 20s. Reference any mainstream dating site, woman typically date up.
I would say that you have specific qualities of youth, perhaps a cute face or an athletic body. Hair is also a big thing for cougars.
Ever since I was a young man I loved older women. I didn't necessarily go out and look for them, but they were always there.
I don't think it is unusual for an older woman who usually has some money to bring to the table will want to relive some parts of her own youth by dating a man younger than she is. Who doesn't like a physical body that is in better condition than their own? And sometimes a physical relationship is enough. It's like watching television when you are bored; you could do better, more fulfilling things with your time, but sometimes it's fun to just veg-out.
Older women also know how make the most out their time in the bedroom. They are not afraid to say what they want, which can really spice up a session. They are also somewhat grateful for your presence which can also be a lot of fun. In other words, they know what they want and they are not afraid to ask for it (even demand it) or go out and get it.
More power to them for not having to feel like they have to pretend to be something they are not. Don't you get tired of having to deal with the games and role-playing that a lot of younger women come attached with? It's like they know they have the Holy Grail and make you pay to partake of it. Ugh, relationships.
Enjoy the bounty with which the universe has seen fit to drop at your feet.
He's admitted that he doesn't read period, even where college books are concerned. When a poster responds to him he answers only the first sentence or two and ignores anything that goes beyond a first paragraph.
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The condom cougar (haha what a funny nickname) also stared at me a lot during class. That's another reason why I thought she was into me.
Ever thought that maybe she stared at you because she was rather flummoxed that a kid could be so ignorant?
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Oh good grief, what a silly story. As if older women would be into an immature little boy like the OP
It's baffling.
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Yes, I admit I'm not good at reading people. But all the dating advice I've read says if a female stares at you a lot, it means she has a thing for you.
No, she may just be trying to decide on what planet you reside.
That's just common sense anyway. Why else would someone stare at me a lot?
See above.
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Believe me, the city_data91 that people know on the forum is different than the city_data91 that people know in person.
There's a poster that met me and he's posted before confirming that I don't act like this in person.
I think I have an idea to whom you're referring but of late he seems to have done a bit of a turnaround.
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I think you're getting hit on by bears! Perhaps your cologne smells bologna. 
