One of the threads in the Canada forums got me thinking about this topic. Is being open and engaging in small talk with strangers important to you? Why do people think you're rude and unfriendly if you don't share all the details of your life with you?
I'm a pretty social guy with people I know and enjoy being around, but I also tend to be a private person, even with family and friends. I never like the idea of talking about personal matters (dating/relationships/women; money; or even my aspirations in life). I'm also introverted, I hate small talk a lot of times. I'll do it, but I think my ADD kicks in.
I'm also someone who will go do or see something without telling anyone For example, I could go to the airport right now, buy a plane ticket, and go across country to California for a week without telling anyone unless they called. I also absolutely hate talking with other people about business and money. It's amazing how personal even close people get about it.
With a special someone though, I am the kind of person who doesn't hide anything and shares everything. The only thing I would need is someone who sort of has that has same respect for privacy in the relationship and for that partner.
Anyone else feel this way? How do you handle it? How does it work in your relationships in regards to privacy?