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I've always noticed that when one goes to cam2cam with a guy, they'd usually ask you to stand up. I just wanna know your opinion why you'd require woman to do so. I'm not comfortable with standing up for a guy on cam since one feels totally self conscience as if I feel like a horse being checked for the kind of breed or am marketable.
My friends told me that it's probably because they're checking if you have any physical deformities cause it makes you a burden. That opinion is really so discriminatory, but is it the truth? Can anyone shed some light on this question? Opinions please?
Simple answer, guys are attracted to nice bodies and pretty faces. Most guys aren't attracted to larger women, yet they don't like really slender women. The thing about this is that what one guy may consider large another may not, what one may consider slender another may not, unless the woman is obviously fat or skinny, it hard to judge.
Though they are just being men and doing what comes natural to them (we are more visual than women) I personally think to ask that is rude, but that's just my opinion.
Anyway they are just asking you to stand up to see what type of body do you have and if they find it desirable. If a guy don't find your body sexually appealing but isn't too turned off by it, then he will weigh your face and personality more or if your face isn't all that appealing then he puts more weight on your body.
Last thing: if a man doesn't find a woman's body or face that attractive he will still sleep with her and do all the things to get to that point including telling her what she wants to hear, pretending to care about her etc, all the while still searching for another, better woman, going on dates behind her back etc.
My friends told me that it's probably because they're checking if you have any physical deformities cause it makes you a burden. That opinion is really so discriminatory, but is it the truth? Can anyone shed some light on this question? Opinions please?
They are checking to see if you are fat. Thats all it is. If you are not fat, you have nothing to worry about. If you are fat ........ well........... start worrying. Or, get to the gym.
Simple answer, guys are attracted to nice bodies and pretty faces. Most guys aren't attracted to larger women, yet they don't like really slender women. The thing about this is that what one guy may consider large another may not, what one may consider slender another may not, unless the woman is obviously fat or skinny, it hard to judge.
Though they are just being men and doing what comes natural to them (we are more visual than women) I personally think to ask that is rude, but that's just my opinion.
Anyway they are just asking you to stand up to see what type of body do you have and if they find it desirable. If a guy don't find your body sexually appealing but isn't too turned off by it, then he will weigh your face and personality more or if your face isn't all that appealing then he puts more weight on your body.
Last thing: if a man doesn't find a woman's body or face that attractive he will still sleep with her and do all the things to get to that point including telling her what she wants to hear, pretending to care about her etc, all the while still searching for another, better woman, going on dates behind her back etc.
They want to see your body.
Duh.
Did you reallllllly need us to tell you that?
Duh! Do you think people think alike? Hello! Some people may have other opinions. This is why I am asking how people see this kind of circumstances. If you think this is a stupid question, then don't entertain my questions and ignore this thread. I am not as intelligent as you are. So, don't stoop your level with me cause it makes you no different from me. A wise man can understand that.
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Originally Posted by lizzy_09
Opinions please?
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Originally Posted by StaggerLee22
What did you think they wanted you to stand up for?
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Originally Posted by lizzy_09
My friends told me that it's probably because they're checking if you have any physical deformities
I was only reaffirming her opinion if others agree with her, or there might be other deductions besides this. An analyst would never give a final decision unless she sees every possible motive. I am not trying to find an argument here. I am trying to find an understanding. So, whether you choose to entertain my reply or not, I don't really care for your opinion cause your way too intelligent for my brain.
I've always noticed that when one goes to cam2cam with a guy, they'd usually ask you to stand up. I just wanna know your opinion why you'd require woman to do so. I'm not comfortable with standing up for a guy on cam since one feels totally self conscience as if I feel like a horse being checked for the kind of breed or am marketable.
My friends told me that it's probably because they're checking if you have any physical deformities cause it makes you a burden. That opinion is really so discriminatory, but is it the truth? Can anyone shed some light on this question? Opinions please?
Yes that's the point of going on cam anyhow. To check you out. They want to see if you're fat or if you have a nice shape.
Tell them to stand up so you too can have a better look.
Better yet, don't cam if you don't want to feel like a piece of meat. Don't forget that you are on display when you decide to cam with a guy.
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