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Old 10-14-2011, 10:21 AM
 
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....and they don't even know it.

Been seeing friends and friends of friends being proposed to from some really great guys and these guys have no idea their woman has cheated on them or been doing them dirty.

My heart literally sinks seeing the FB pictures and updates because these guys are literally so good to these girls and I wonder if the whole world knows what's going on but doesn't say anything.

I cannot lie and say I'm not tempted to send an anonymous letter, because I just feel SO guilty that these great guys are really being screwed over, but I know it's none of my business.


Depressing.
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Old 10-14-2011, 10:31 AM
 
Location: Lewisville, TX
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it's a two way street.

best bet, stay out of it and keep your anonymous letters to yourself. for all you know, the other partner is fully aware of the cheating.
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Old 10-14-2011, 10:34 AM
 
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it's a two way street.

best bet, stay out of it and keep your anonymous letters to yourself. for all you know, the other partner is fully aware of the cheating.
Yeah, that's what I was thinking. I won't do it, but I have to admit I wondered if SOMEONE should.

This case really does happen to be one where the woman is doing all the cheating and her guy literally works all the time (several people are around him) and just chills at home on his off time.

We all know him and he's the nicest guy ever. She confided to a friend of a friend that she feels bad for cheating, but has kept it a secret for over a year. He just proposed to her with a 2ct gorgeous ring.

I wonder if people are looking at him and thinking "Poor sucker."
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Old 10-14-2011, 10:45 AM
 
Location: in here, out there
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There must be something special about her.
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Old 10-14-2011, 10:55 AM
 
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There must be something special about her.
She's pretty. That's about it.
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Old 10-14-2011, 10:58 AM
 
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Is he your best friend? Are you guys close like brothers? If I were in his position, I would want my best friend to tell me. If you two aren't that close, I'm not sure if it's in your place, it may do more harm than good.
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Old 10-14-2011, 11:09 AM
 
Location: US
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Invite her and the other cheater to dinner. I suggest finger food for everyone's safety.
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Old 10-14-2011, 11:10 AM
 
Location: Florida
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Invite her and the other cheater to dinner. I suggest finger food for everyone's safety.
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Old 10-14-2011, 11:12 AM
 
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....and they don't even know it.

Been seeing friends and friends of friends being proposed to from some really great guys and these guys have no idea their woman has cheated on them or been doing them dirty.

My heart literally sinks seeing the FB pictures and updates because these guys are literally so good to these girls and I wonder if the whole world knows what's going on but doesn't say anything.

I cannot lie and say I'm not tempted to send an anonymous letter, because I just feel SO guilty that these great guys are really being screwed over, but I know it's none of my business.


Depressing.
That's blind faith for you, and another reason why people shouldn't waste their time with marriage. But they'll live. There's millions of others out there.
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Old 10-14-2011, 11:33 AM
 
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Poor sucker. Never saw it coming. And when he does find out and gets indignated enough to grow a spine, he's gonna pay through the nose for having married her. Double life whammy. People have killed for less.. Eff marriage, it's a lose lose.
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