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Old 09-02-2011, 11:02 PM
 
Location: USA
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If he meant what you all are saying, why not just say "bye" and leave it at that. Why tack the rest of the sentence on? Or just say he's busy this week or for a while? It just seems so enigmatic. Do you think he's trying to not hurt my feelings? or leave the door open in case he "wants some"?
Don't over analyze it. He just wants to feel like he has some power, so he can walk in and out when he wants to.

Saying, No thanks...and a good smile, can be very powerful for oneself.
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Old 09-02-2011, 11:24 PM
 
Location: Flushing, Queens, NYC, NY
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It means that he will see you when he sees you.
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Old 10-12-2012, 12:18 PM
 
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chit we have another over analyzer
We have:

1) Another over analyzer

2) Another guy who wants something for nothing

Lot of that going around these days.
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Old 10-12-2012, 12:45 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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When he has use for you, you'll get a call. Otherwise -- outta sight, outta mind.

So surprising, I know.
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Old 10-12-2012, 01:20 PM
 
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When he has use for you, you'll get a call. Otherwise -- outta sight, outta mind.
Doll knows, and doesn't sugarcoat. The woman who allowed herself to be used and get this response could also see it from this person's behavior ahead of time. Behavior is usually consistent, unless people want to ignore warning signals.

It's denial. The same kind of denial a woman has when she keeps the child from a tenuous fling for which she erroneously thinks "If I have his child, he will love me." Of all the lines out there, this one is among the most ridiculous to me.
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Old 10-12-2012, 01:35 PM
 
Location: Petticoat Junction
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"I'll see you when I see you" What does this mean when a hookup says that?
..means you weren't very good.
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Old 10-12-2012, 01:37 PM
 
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wow sometimes I wonder if people posting here is either naive or mentally challenged.
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Old 10-12-2012, 01:40 PM
 
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It means "I'll see you if and when I want , if I care, and if I don't, you won't". I'm a guy, I know these things.
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Old 10-12-2012, 01:52 PM
 
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He probably and most likely only said that because as you already said, nobody knows about you two.

Another reason is probably by the sound of things, because no plans had been made to see each other.

You guys probably make plans to see each other/hookup when it suits.
When that happens, he'll see you.

Some of the comments here really make me laugh. Common sense people. Stop reading so much into things and use common sense.
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Old 10-12-2012, 02:10 PM
 
Location: NoVa
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It means, "I'll see you next time I want a piece of ass."
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