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Old 09-12-2011, 08:16 PM
 
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He told me he had it when we met, but I accepted and loved him in spite of it though. Wish him well, but I'm in a really good place now and am moving forward, not looking backwards
Nicegurl,
You don't have herpes now too- since he had them?
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Old 09-12-2011, 09:03 PM
 
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Nicegurl,
You don't have herpes now too- since he had them?
We used condoms. I got tested after we broke up, and the test was negative Thank god
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Old 09-12-2011, 10:35 PM
 
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Thank you very much dr74

I agree with everything that you wrote...I just hope (and pray) that at some point in the not-to-distant future, I'll meet someone else who will be right for me and who will love me the way in which I deserve to be loved. In the meantime, I will continue to make myself happy, be the best person I can be, and live the best life that I can live.

Oh...I remember playing that old Lou Rawl's song, " You'll Never Find: You're Gonna Miss My Lovin'" on YouTube for my ex shortly before I broke things off with him. I didn't realize, at the time, that it would actually come true
Oh you will....Like I stated it seems as if you are together and ready for a new relationship and when you least expect you are going to meet a great guy who is going to appreciate you just for being you...

Best of luck...doubt you need it though
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Old 09-13-2011, 09:19 AM
 
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Each time he contacts me, within 24 hours I receive another email from one of his best female friends inviting me to add her on Facebook, or wanting to know if I'm free. When the ex and I were together, she had expressed a desire to be friends with me, but when we broke up, she became quiet, and would not respond when I wrote and asked her if she still wanted to be friends. Now all of a sudden she wants to make contact. I could be wrong, but I think that he may be putting her up to it, so I don't respond.

I don't see what's so interesting about me or my life all of a sudden that they would want to get in touch. I also figure that since he loved his previous girlfriend so much, he would be happy and content being with her and I would be the last person on his mind at this point in time.

It doesn't upset me, or make me feel bad...I just don't get it is all.

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YOU were the one that wrote and asked if she still wanted to be friends...you were the one that left the "door" open!!....just DON'T respond, and that door will soon-enough close.
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Old 09-13-2011, 11:29 PM
 
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Oh you will....Like I stated it seems as if you are together and ready for a new relationship and when you least expect you are going to meet a great guy who is going to appreciate you just for being you...

Best of luck...doubt you need it though
Thanks dr74
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Old 09-13-2011, 11:34 PM
 
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YOU were the one that wrote and asked if she still wanted to be friends...you were the one that left the "door" open!!....just DON'T respond, and that door will soon-enough close.
You're right...I simply closed that door right back by blocking her from being able to contact me in the future <wiping palms of hands together in an up and down motion>
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