is it appropriate to tell this girl I love her? (date, girls)
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Yeah, i agree with everyone here. Take your time. Get to know her. Right now your only seeing what she is choosing to show you, and it is good that you feel that way about it. Seems to be going good for you so far -- give it 6 mths to a year like someone said and THEN you can utter those words.
I think this is the time for you to show her your feelings thru deeds and actions rather than words. Let her draw her own conclusions. Good luck!
Definately this. You do not have to say those words to tell her you love her. Do it through your deeds and actions. Be thoughtful, helpful, caring. A little gift (nothing pricey or expensive, simple things, flowers, etc. Or even, something that itself is not romantic. Early in my relationship to my now fiancee, I bought her a nice travel mug. She loved it! It wasn't romantic like flowers, but she had been talking about how she wanted and needed one, and really appreciate the gift because, as she put it, it showed her I cared about her and what she had been telling me that I picked up on her desire for such a thing and gave it to her as gift. It wasn't a visual display of romance or love like flowers or chocolates, but an inward display of love.)
OP, are you still living with your ex? You should definitely get out of that living situation before taking the new relationship to the "next level." That said, you should just go with the flow and let some time pass before you consider the three magic words.
She said she wants to take it slow. She is not ready for those 3 little words.
temptation001 is right......it's a bit early....enjoy her company for a while first......those words (said so soon) could possibly scare her away.
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