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Could be any number of reasons, you're most accurate answer will come from him. If it happens again just flat out ask him what the deal is, meanwhile, don't second guess yourself. Whatever the problem was, it was most likely something he was dealing with. We can speculate all day as to why...herpes breakout, performance anxiety, maybe he still had another woman's scent on him, etc, etc.
I guess I figured since we've already "done the deed" in the past, we were past taking it slow now?
What do you all think? ANY advice would be helpful.
Since you said you've done this before with no issue...have you considered that, perhaps he caught something he doesn't want you to catch... It maybe far fetched but one of the possibilities to think about after all. I think he's into you.
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Well, that's fine. I wish he would just SAY that. The mixed messages are driving me up a wall.
I'd say the only way to know is to ask. It may be nothing, just didn't feel like it that day. Or maybe he has something like herpes and was flaring or something, who knows. Just ask. Maybe he's interested in more than just sex with you.
He has another b*tch. I'm sure he wanted to get it in by the fact that he had a erection. But his conscience probably was eating at him. And the only reason why his conscience would be eating at him is if he was thinking about someone else feelings.
As long as he's not cheating on anyone w me (meaning they have an open / non-committed relationship) that would actually be preferable than him wanting to only be friends, as far as I'm concerned.
Could be any number of reasons, you're most accurate answer will come from him. If it happens again just flat out ask him what the deal is, meanwhile, don't second guess yourself. Whatever the problem was, it was most likely something he was dealing with. We can speculate all day as to why...herpes breakout, performance anxiety, maybe he still had another woman's scent on him, etc, etc.
Well, I figured that someone who would make out w someone to keep from hurting their feelings may not be the type of person to admit that they really don't like you that much, bc it's hard for them to say or admit anything that might be hurtful. You know, avoidant types.
Well, I figured that someone who would make out w someone to keep from hurting their feelings may not be the type of person to admit that they really don't like you that much, bc it's hard for them to say or admit anything that might be hurtful. You know, avoidant types.
It doesn't sound to me like he's making out with you to spare your feelings. Something else is going on here. Don't be afraid to ask him.
There is no way he feels sorry for you. Men do not get hard-ons because they feel sorry for someone. Do you really think they can just tell their "boy" to rise so that the young lady doesn't suspect he isn't into her? Come on. There's no way.
So there are several possibilities here that I would consider.
1. He had sex with someone earlier and hadn't showered.
2. He had a severe case of herpes and was sparing you the horror.
3. He was getting treated for some other STD.
4. He fell in love with you and now doesn't want you using him.
5. He is playing mind games and is torturing you sexually so you will want him more later.
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It maybe far fetched but one of the possibilities to think about after all. I think he's into you.
