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Feelings obviously aren't just about romantic relationships but that's what I'm addressing because that's what the OP (rather clumsily) addressed. But witness a man crying over his beloved pet having passed away, or watching his child's graduation with tears in his eyes, and tell me you don't believe men have feelings. Seriously now.
Or when they walk down the isle with their daughters...
Don't flame me on this -- I am asking a sincere question. The men I have known seem to be able to turn their feelings on and off like a light switch.
My ex told me on a Wednesday that we would grow old together. On Friday he said he was outta here, he'd found someone else, goodbye.
My latest (10 month relationship) told me how much he cared, all the things we would do together, etc. A week later he told me he has changed and doesn't think he has time anymore.
How do you do it? Is it just staying detached? Is there a trick to turning your emotions on and off that quickly and being able to walk away without a backward glance?
Yes and no... If I want to hold on to a girl to for example have more sex or a better timing to stop, I will attune myself to whatever quatity of emotions she seems to have, for as long as I want to keep on going...
However there are times when I feel so strongly for someone that nothing else can take up thought-space in my brain, that I would go through hells fire and the chill of the north pole naked to have a specific girl, those are the hard times as they never lead anywhere.
Sure they do but when it comes to relationships and what women think, only women's feelings matter. This should be obvious to anyone who has read this thread for any time.
Sure they do but when it comes to relationships and what women think, only women's feelings matter. This should be obvious to anyone who has read this thread for any time.
I can't help it if my dog is a much more reliable source of love than any crazy, flickle female.
A question, have you ever had sex with a woman?
I ask because many times people will say, "I don't need a man/woman", yet they will have no issue with having sex with the one thing the proclaim they don't need. One would be fooling himself if he said he needed no woman, but then wanted one to accompany him in bed. I have respect for those who say they don't need a man/woman and then truly don't. Needing a woman for sex is still needing a woman.
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